How do i get over her?

Question

I recently broke up with my girlfriend whom I love very much. Its not the first time we broke up, but everytime we do we end up calling eachother and getting back together. We do this alot. What can I do to make my decision final and not find myself dialing her number again? I need to get over her, but how when I am so in love with her?

Answer 1

I think a lot of it is you're afraid of being alone. Work on yourself for a while...spend time doing things YOU like to do. If you don't know what makes you happy, find out. That is really the best way to get over a situation like that. Trust me, it really works. Good luck!

Answer 2

I know it's difficult, but you can heal from a broken heart. It takes a strong will and the resolve to do it. It's probably best if you put distance between the two of you--especially at first until you form new habits. Do whatever is necessary to care for yourself, talk things out with friends or family, form a support sytem to help you along the way, and find something else to do with your time. Good Luck

Answer 3

if ur in love with her and shes meant for u then ur gonna be together if shes not meant for u then u wont be.......even if u do find urself calling her back maybe its meant to be between the 2 of yall.....if u dont like that idea then just make the decision final by calling her doing it and going out with some guy friends......ull eventually forget about her if u stay busy doing something...either that or find another gf .......

Answer 4

Love is not a simple thing... Are you sure you really want to forget? Cuz if you make the wrong decision you'll just end up hating yourself... Try to know what you really want before you make that decision...

Answer 5

Why do you keep breaking up if you love her so much??

Answer 6

Give it time.