My ex and I broke up just over 7 months ago for childish immature reasons, we were both still completley in love and we still are today..We have been contemplating getting back together and last night she called and said she really wants to work on things...I'm terrified because I know she has had other partners in these last 7 months and I'm afraid I won't be able to deal with the fact (I know its none of my business but I can't help but think about it and it makes me so sick to my stomach). I myself have not, I lost my virginity to this girl and I thought I would end up marrying her. Im reluctant to get back together because I feel I should go out and do some experimenting myself (I know it sounds selfish but I feel its only human nature to wonder). I dont wanna end up back in a relationship and have regrets not going out and dating others, you are married your whole life. I feel if things are meant to be in the long run they will, in the meantime I should just stay single?
2006-12-11 06:10:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on..
Find a new g/f.
Best way to mend a broken heart is to find a new love.
2006-12-11 06:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the mixture of you wanting to see what else is out there and the fact that you wont be able to stop thinking of the other guys in her life, its best not to get back together. At this point nothing good can come of it. There will be lots of resentment and fighting. You guys broke up for a reason and have been apart 7 months for a reason. Let it be at least for now.
2006-12-11 14:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck have you been doing for the last 7 months? Get together with her and talk, clear the air and tell her you love her if that's true but don't even think about getting back together with her. Get out and date and meet some new people and have some fun!
2006-12-11 14:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by tallbrian1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur worried about her possibly having an std talk to her and go to the dr with her and find out if she has one..do what ur heart is telling u to do.......look at ur life 20 to 30 yrs from now if its with her go back to her if not then dont......its natural to be confused about stuff like this.......just take a look at ur future and look at what u see....then go from there....
2006-12-11 14:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋