There is a girl who has been in love with my bf before me and him started dating. Well not "in love" but she had a major crush on him and got pissed when we started dating. I totally understand how it feels to have your crush stolen from u so i sympathized with her at first. But more and more I see she is constantly texting him, im'ing him, and trying to have as much to do with him as possible. These little things are starting to bother me. And she's pulling the whole "well I'm having guy problems can you please help me you always understand" act. I hate that because I have done it before and it is to make the guy u like think that u actually don't like them but just see them as a good friend. I don't buy it for a second with her because she is constantly flirting with him and used to be in love with him. He even told me she wanted to go out with him before. Okay so this is a long story but it is just so frustrating. What should I do about a girl constantly all over my bf???
2006-12-11 05:42:51 · 13 answers · asked by Bethany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could confront her, but I think a better way would be for you to just keep treating your boyfriend well enough so that he'd never dream of leaving you. The only drawback to that is that it's going to probably hurt him more if you break up with him after treating him so well. You could also confront the girl too, or mention it to your boyfriend (Like: "Why does she call so much? It's starting to bother me." I don't think that would offend him if he likes you.). Have a nice day!
2006-12-11 05:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what does ur bf do ?because you both is goin through this 2gether~!if you both hang out alot and i m sure she is goin to follow some where some how so plan something so that she stop doing annoying thing to you both. introduce a friend or ask her out for a coffe or something.
plan a : do as what she say , be friends , since you know her motive, you will c much more clearer what is her nex plan and y she is doin this (in this process i m sure she will do her 'act' so u must analize it seriously like a cop)
plan b: you and ur bf keep on goin if she really sms ur bf again ask ur bf pass the hp let u do the feedback. then she is know ur bf 'feeling'
plan c : ingore her .
2006-12-11 05:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off it doesnt seem like your boyfriend has too much of a problem with it b/c in order to text someone you have to have their number...so why hasnt he changed it yet?? the root of the problem lies within your boyfriend he's telling you things and no telling what he's telling her...b/c not one time did you mention that he asked her to stop texting...i think he's getting a rise out of this two girls drooling over him....you need to put your boyfriend in his place and stop placing all the blame on her....b/c it's just as much him as it is her...but you do not want to see that but it's the truth, tell him to change the number that way she can't contact him...if he refuses then that means he has no problem with her texting, he just likes to get up under your skin and it's working...take it for what it is, it's more him then it is her trust me and until he tells her to stop it will continue.
2006-12-11 06:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her out. Let her know her behavior is annoying and with all the other boys out there, maybe it's time she goes and finds a single guy to talk to.
Also, tell your boyfriend that it bothers you and he should simply stop all conversations with her so she'll take the hint. If he's not man enough to handle the situation, get rid of him.
2006-12-11 05:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It annoys me at the same time as my overwhelm is afraid to go back and seek for suggestion from from me. i somewhat choose they'd spend each and every waking second with me, nicely no longer each and each and every of the time, yet barely adequate to allow me comprehend that they somewhat care about me and that i'm no longer the picture of easily one of there associates. It also annoys me at the same time as the guy in no way takes my area. I recommend, at the same time as befell to the guideline "women first" And "even with matches the lady"? Yeah, I choose adult males would purely comprehend that women are way different than adult males. we are no the position close to an same, and typically we choose particular clinical care, even if it does recommend telling a white deceive three quantity. the guy is meant to make the lady chuffed.
2016-11-25 20:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about it and express your feelings and concerns to him. See what he has to say about the whole situation. He might not even notice it and just think she's being friendly. Don't turn it into an arguement, but state that you trust him, you don't trust her intentions...
2006-12-11 05:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jyse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well actually sheis probably alot prettier than you and that makes u insecure..your boyfriend would prolly rather hang out with her i mean it is a long distance relationship right!...soo he obviously wants to be with a girl that is down there..get over it !..he likes her
2006-12-11 05:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hug her... but tell your bf to make her leave him alone. He is the problem but not stopping her.. it's not your job.
2006-12-11 05:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by awjandbjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick the living shi***** out of her and then tell your bf to stop talking to her.
2006-12-11 05:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her and tell her how much she annoys you....
ask your BF to ignore her and avoid seeing her...
get your friends help if fear alone to confront her...
good luck!!
2006-12-11 05:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋