This guy and I broke up sometime during the summer and he started dating ths other girl. I still have feelings for him and stuff like that. Well him and his new girlfriend just broke up and we started talking again. He says he wants to be with me and he just needs to let her go. So we just hang out and talk now. Should i stay with what i am doing and continue to try and get back together with him or should i just walk away from it all???????
2006-12-11 05:35:27 · 13 answers · asked by chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it's important you really know what YOU want to do at this point... Ask yourself what are those feelings you have for him? Just old feelings? Or do you think that no other guy could ever reaplce that no matter what? If you're not in a hurry or anything just let things go from themselves.. see how things eveolve by not pushing anything too soon. Sometime people need to be separated from their love to realise they really need it... And sometimes it's just not a good match. One thing i've learned is that whatever you guys broke up for, you have to make sure that reason has completely disapeared or it will come up again... Unless one or both of you has changed alot and don't mind it anymore. If there wasen't any good reason for the break, maybe it was just a question of bad timming... Truth is, what does your heart realy say for this guy? ;) good luck!
2006-12-11 05:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would walk away {I know that's not what you want to hear} for two reasons. One you already broke up right? There had to be a reason for that. People don't break up just because they are oh, so in love and everything is happy. Something had to go wrong.
Plus if you go back with him you MAY be his rebound affair or whatever you want to call it from his latest girl friend. And what if he decides he wants her again. Is he going to keep bouncing back and forth between the two of you? Someone has to stop it and it may as well be you.
I know it may not seem like it, but honestly there are plenty of other guys out there just waiting for a great person like you! I promise. And they will treat you right. Relationships, like life, are trial and error, when you find the right one, you will have NO questions at all about it.
Good luck to you! Don't let yourself get stuck in a rubberband relationship, you'll be the one who gets hurt not anyone else!
2006-12-11 13:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you want to give your relationship with this guy another chance, go for it. But make sure that he wants the same thing too. If his only reason for wanting to be with you is to "let his other gf go" , be careful, because he may just want to get back together with you to get over his other gf. Take it a step at a time, and see how it turns out.
2006-12-11 13:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by ccccc12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, if he's really a good guy and you know you can depend on him then I think you should try and if possible try to know how he feels for you, tha'tll make things a little easy... But if all else fails and you know you two can't get back then try and set free those feelings, hard to do but it's the only way cuz nothing can change what already happend...
2006-12-11 13:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dark Valentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you content to be his "seasonal" girlfriend? Why is he telling you that he just needs to let her go? If he was serious he wouldn't tell you about it first, he would done it. Is he afraid to be without a girlfriend for a few minutes? Do yourself a favor, find a young man that isn't ambivalent.
2006-12-11 13:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by aquaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choice really...but think of this...why did you guys break up in the first place??? Usually things dont work out for a reason...
Dont be his fall back girl...be careful and I wish you the best!!
2006-12-11 13:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, go out with me, I'll show you a great time, better than this guy anyway.
I'm married but she doesn't mind, we can all have a big threesome and I mean really big, I'm 407lbs big, now how's that big for you?
2006-12-11 13:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Derek K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's on the rebound, see him but don't have sex with him, he sounds immature and like a user.
2006-12-11 13:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by jeffpsd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r a spare tyres to him when he don need you he leave you,when he had no one he saw you then he say he love you so technically you r a 'spare ' part . if u r willing to cheat urslef for ther rest of urlife go for it or .....get a life ~!
2006-12-11 13:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if there were trust issues, let him go. If you had normal disagreements, give it another go if you feel like it
2006-12-11 13:38:29 · answer #10 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋