Just to add some more details to the orgianl questions. When the acting out started I took her straight to the doctor who witnessed her behavior. She has been taken to the ER about it. The father has goten mad and deny's anything has happend. My daughter will say one minute that "dad is mean" and the next "dad is nice" I don't discuss anything in front of her regarding this matter. The doctor did check her over and there are no signs of physical or sexual abuse but her actions say emotional. I have court date in Feb but in the meantime he keeps calling every weekend wanting to get her crying swearing nothing has happend. I love my daughter she is my life and I want to protect her no matter what the cost is but I don't wanna over react and blow all of this out of proportion.
2006-12-11 05:35:04 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow..first of all, i feel so bad for your little girl...i also feel so bad for her dad, he's being accused of something that it's "possible" he's innocent of..just imagine how you'd feel if you got accused of doing something like this to someone you truly love and helped bring into this world..his own child! i know there are many men out there that do this type of stuff to their own children..so i cannot judge and think he did or didn't do it...you stated that she got examined by the doctor...but did he ask her questions? I know 3 year olds are pretty advanced these days and know and understand alot more than we think...sit her down...talk to her about "good touch, bad touch"...tickle her..play with her hair, telling her those are good touches...then show her the bad places...like drawing a body on paper..ask her where her bad touch places are...then ask her if anyone has touched her there...include her mouth, and ask her if she gets "big kisses"...etc...it's a hard thing to do, but it's necessary..it's hard to trust anyone these days by our own experiences from the past. she could also be saying "dad is nice" one minute, and the other the next due to confusion of how he treats her...she's 3 years old, at that stage, they LOVE getting what they want...maybe he lets her do certain things you wouldn't let her do, and that makes her think he's "nice"...and then he don't let her do things you let her do, which makes her think he's mean...maybe he disciplines her (don't necessarily mean physical) and she gets angry..does she witness you and him arguing? maybe she views his actions/words toward you as mean...and his love and attention to her as nice...the only one to tell you what exactly is going on is her herself...just ask little subtle questions...but not direct questions so that she'll go and repeat herself to someone else...then it'll go out of proportion...i wish you the best of luck on this issue...it's very hard knowing it's your own child...and you don't know what's going on...just have persistence and think clearly
2006-12-11 06:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by dre o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
components: 2 long papertowl tubes 2 rectangle klenex packing containers, empty of course a hand full of rubbebands scissors....you're able to in undemanding terms use them and tape. first ....take the klenex container and shrink a circle on between the shorter factors touching directly to the scale of the papertube next placed the paper tube interior the hollow you basically shrink. look after it via putting tape around it so it wont circulate. next placed rubberband around the klenex container going the good distance....2 or 3 could artwork. then tape down the rubberbands so they dont fly off. now they have their own musical intrument
2016-12-11 06:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by goslin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋