my girlfriend is really into church and school and stuff and I would like to get past making out. any suggestions?????????????????????
2006-12-11 05:32:32 · 10 answers · asked by mikypball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to Church with her, then in a few years Marry her, then go from there.
2006-12-11 05:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can DO to "take it to the next level". You have to talk to her and find out what her feelings are on sex and sexual expression. If she does not believe in it, then you have to decide if you are trying to build a relationship, in which case you learn to live with it; or if you are just trying to get her naked in bed, in which case you should be looking elsewhere and so should she. Sex is a lot more than playing around.
2006-12-11 14:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by funwithu_007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont respect her and she deserves someone who is willing to respect and be like her. If she wants to stay at the 'making out' stage thats what she feels is comfortable for her and she, assumingly, wants to live a godly life and that means nothing of the sexual sort because that is against God and his word and God is more important than you. If all you want from a relationship is to be somewhat active (sexually, not just talking about intercourse), you should leave her and give her the chance to be with somebody who will wait and respect her decisions and one that follows her beliefs and who is a Godly man.
2006-12-11 13:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan Marcel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pull it out and put her hand on it while you are making out.
She's got two choices what to do next.
If she gets freaked out, she ain't gonna do you till your married and then only sometimes. Lose her!
On the other hand she may take the bait. Tell her what feels good!
2006-12-11 13:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her time. As a woman, it's nice to be respected. Wait a little longer....maybe she'll make the move. Or you could be considerate and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and that you don't want to disrespect her wishes or make her feel uncomfortable....you just want to express yourself physically. But do me a favor....if you honestly and truly care about her and aren't like the rest of your gender, then please repect her-body and mind. Thank you!!
2006-12-11 13:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by wilsonsarahmarie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her about it. Remember, you both need to want the same thing before the relationship should advance. If after you talk to her, and she doesn't want to go to the next level, you should respect that and not force her to do something she doesn't want to do.
2006-12-11 13:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by ccccc12345 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her about it.
tell her how you feel.
if she feels uncomfortable going further than give it a bit more time.
If you like her that much than you will wait until she ready to do more things.
There are many more ways to take things to the next step without being physical.
2006-12-11 13:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her about it, be honest - but gentle, don't make it seem like that's all you want and/or are thinking about.
2006-12-11 13:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cant push her to do anything, give her time, my bf is really scared to keep going past making out and now that we've talked about it and i never pushed him he wants to
2006-12-11 13:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by kitkatpattywack 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ur screwed
2006-12-11 13:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋