2006-12-11 05:30:16 · 14 answers · asked by aerbanks2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you're feeling isn't wrong, by any means. It's actually pretty natural. I speak from experience! I have a boyfriend, I've been with him for 5 years now. I love him to death, plan on getting married blah blah blah...but, I do have some friends who are bi, or gay, and yes, I find them attractive. We've even kissed on occasion during our drunken outtings to the bar. Now I don't reccommend ACTING on your feelings for other girls...as this is definitely classified as cheating....doesn't matter if it's the same sex, you're still gettin' it on with someone. It's quite okay to have these "feelings", and who knows... you might be discovering your sexuality, you may be bi as well. Talk it over with your boyfriend, if you can't, do some more thinking, reflect on your sexuality. If you discover you are bisexual, I would reccommend telling your bf. Afterall, honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship, if you feel oppressed, sexually, (because you have feelings for other girls but can't act on them) then your relationship will be pretty rough with your man.
There's just something about those girls, (bi sexuals, gay) that makes you go "WOW!", it's different, I LOVE kissing girls! There's just something women, that men don't have! I did tell my boyfriend about my "kssing encounters" with my friends, he said it's all in good fun, but I would NEVER go further as that would be crossing the line, oh yeah and... I'm too chicken! haha! Don't worry about feeling something for bi and gay girls, the majority of women have these feelings too, they just won't admit it!
2006-12-11 05:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by chickingirl19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, It is if that's what you need. First off no two people have the same mind or thoughts so one persons opinion will be different than another.If you feel in your heart that you cant live without being with girls as well as a man than you owe it to yourself and your boyfriend to be honest about it.Trust me when I say that you cant bury what you need to have because if you do, it will more than likely come out at one point and you will do it anyway and then hurt someone because of lying to yourself and them.Or if you do manage to keep it inside and never allow yourself that desire, you will spend alot of your life not feeling fulfilled and that will reflect on alot of things in your life negatively. Just bite the bullet up front and you will find that you will be better at all in your life because of your ability to handle the truth inside yourself and give and recieve respect alot better.
good luck!
2006-12-11 05:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having feelings is one thing. Lots of people deal with that. But if you are in a relationship with one person, to act on feelings for another person is cheating regardless of the gender of the other person. If you are bi then a relationship with a girl is the same as with a guy. Would you want to go to visit your guy and find him having sex with another guy?
2006-12-11 05:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by funwithu_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship and are having feelings for other people then you should probably reconsider keeping your boyfriend.
2006-12-11 05:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no in between your gay or not gay, because you like one more than the other don't confuse yourself.
2006-12-11 05:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lionel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u like ur bf to have 2 gf at the same time?that will b unfair for you right?
2006-12-11 05:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there im in the same situation as you . the thing is , make sure he knows you like girls cause otherwise it could go bad. you know what im saying. just make sure you're with who you want to be with.
2006-12-11 05:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by kitkatpattywack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to have any feelings that you want to and that' your RIGHT.
2006-12-11 05:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change who you like.... so if you still like woman let your man know. I don't think he will really mind. but you have to be true to your self and your man...
2006-12-11 05:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling, yes - actions, no... unless he's okay with it.
(and by "okay with it", I mean she has to be hot.)
2006-12-11 05:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋