I have been told recently that I can't have any kids I know kids don't make a family but it hurts to know i can't have any and I can't afford to adopt people told me I should just accept it and move on but it is hard. My husband been really good he don't care one way or another. He says he loves me anyways.How can i get over this.
2006-12-11 05:25:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hi there im sorry that this has happened to you ,you always think that in the future that you will have kids then this happens ,you will come to terms with this and learn to deal with and live you life with youre husband ,and its good to know that he supports you ,but just because you cant have children doesnt mean that you cant have them in you life ,what about fostering them there are thousands of kids out here that need love and support through fostering ,or how about studing and getting a degree to work with children there are lots of different areas that you can go on and have children in and around youre life .....things look really unhappy for you at the moment but if you want it you and youre husband can and will make things happen just give youre self a bit of time to get over this and then when you are ready and you both know what you wat to do then i really wish you the best of luck in the world ......take care of each other xx
2006-12-11 05:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hard, I cant have anymore kids, You could get involved in kids programs, become a sunday school teacher or help out kids in your community, that will make you feel really needed. There are so many kids in communities who would love a mentor someone to talk to, someone to look up to. I know you will always want to have kids, but think how much time you have to be with your hubby. He sounds like a great guy if he backs you up 100%. There are prorams called big brother and sisters, they are fun and kids love it. Hope the best for you!
2006-12-11 14:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I to was told the same thing. I was really upset when I was younger. I have taken to animals They need someone to love them. and you can still be free. So sorry for the news. You will find someone child that could use a mom and step in to help out.
2006-12-11 13:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine was told she would not be able to have a child, so she and her husband started the adoption process and were scheduled to go to China to adopt their daughter when she found out she was pregnant! ! ! ! Now she is pregnant with her second naturally! ! !
GET A SECOND OPINION Dr.'s are wrong sometimes! ! !
2006-12-11 13:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can adopt through the children's aid society. There are alot of older children that need loving parents.. Maybe that is your calling. As far as I know there are no fees involved. Good luck.
2006-12-11 14:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by carmieaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know that your husband loves you and it makes no difference to him that you can not conceive. Be happy he is a wonderful person
2006-12-11 13:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear that you are in that tough place. I know its not easy, but life throws you serious curve-balls. Im sad you got this one, but life isnt over. Dont believe the lie honey, just wait. Life has curve balls to throw at your curve balls.
2006-12-11 13:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get over it by babysitting a 2-year-old for a few hours.
2006-12-11 13:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
foster a child
2006-12-11 13:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foster a child
2006-12-11 13:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋