I'm thinkin photo burnin, etc. she's already got rid of all his stuff, deleted his number and been on the rebound, all with no luck!
We r gettin drunk and gonna do it 2nite so it can't be anythin with too much stuff involved.
2006-12-11 05:25:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's done the rebound thing plenty, shes even been out with guys but it doesn't last as she's thinkin of him
2006-12-11 05:30:26 · update #1
and f.y.i we r gettin drunk anyway 2nite, not just to drown her sorrows
2006-12-11 05:56:28 · update #2
I burned my ex's photos. It was a real cleansing feeling and able to move on.
2006-12-11 05:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by MiMi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't burn the photos. Put them in a box on top of the wardrobe or something. One day she might wanna look back on them. I don't think getting pissed will help as you only tend to see things 10 times worse than what they are. Tell her to be on her own for a while-it makes you so much more of a stronger person.
2006-12-11 13:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The ritual of photo-burning and mocking /all/ of both of your past exes. A rebound man also helps.
2006-12-11 13:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously don't know her but it may not be her ex she misses may be its certain things he did or stood for.
maybe she needs affection or someone close to her even spend the night with her so shes not alone in bed but not neccessarily in a sexual way.. or maybe she needs someone to tell her how good she is at what she does or who she is or how she looks.
its a hit to the confidence when you been with someone n rely on each other then u suddenly alone.. sounds like shes lucky though with friends like you to help take her mind of it. i'd try to do something other than dwell on her ex tonight..its not about not thinking of him more like her having fun n being confident without him and getting on with her life
2006-12-11 13:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah take her out get her drunk and tell her she needs to get it on with the fit bloke in the corner. Thats what I did and Me and the Fit bloke are now married. Hope this help x x x
2006-12-11 13:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
photo burning worked for me (when i was 16, and that was like an aeon ago). just make sure that u burn them far from the curtains, beds etc etc, and have water and fire extinguisher at hand. and plse dont all of u get drunk while u play with fire!
2006-12-11 13:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by jiwaku79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you don't need to do all those things... Just be happy for that person, yeah I know it's hard to do but you can't do anything else... Getting drunk won't change anything infact it'll just remind you why your drinking and it's because of your EX... But it all depends on you...
2006-12-11 13:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Valentine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never burn photos. even if u hate the person, those pics may come in handy one day.
how about a girls night out. just a night without thinking about her ex.
2006-12-11 13:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should bring some guys friends over and maybe she will start likeing one of them and that will keep her mind off her ex.
2006-12-11 13:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet with lots of guys till she meets the right man at the end!
I think that's the only solution. Trust me.
Drinking never helps...it makes you desperate and depressed...
2006-12-11 15:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋