While my EX and I were still together I caught her going through my cell phone, my dialed calls, recieved calls, and text messages. When I asked her about it she just played it off that she liked my phone (it was when the Razr first came out) and she just wanted to look at it. After that I put the code in to lock it, and then when she tried to look through it and couldn't she got really mad at me. I had nothign to hide, but I felt it was an invasion of my privacy and told her to trust me.
After we sepperated we agreed to be friends, but she is still mad that I locked my phone from her and that it is still locked. Every time I see her she gets some reason to want to see my phone and is still mad that it is locked.
So was she / is she right to be mad?
2006-12-11 05:11:12 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She had absolutely no business looking through your dialed calls, received calls, and text messages. That's invasion of privacy and has nothing to do with "liking your phone."
You were right to lock your phone and keep it locked. And you were right to no longer be with her! I only question why you would want that kind of person for a so-called friend.
2006-12-11 05:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by kja63 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well she kinda does because if you didn't have nothing to hide then why did you lock the phone when your in a relationship then there is no such thing as an invasion of privacy. but she should of trusted you and knew that you weren't doing anything behind her back if she really loves you. so basically yes she did have a reason to be mad i know i would of been mad.
2006-12-11 05:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there now that you are not a couple she has no rights to any thing that belongs to you as for her going into the phone when you where a item well if she was just looking at the phone she was doing no harm .....but you put a lock on the phone so that has made her think that you are up to something .....i get the feeling thatshe has been hurt in the past and thinks that you and every other man on this planet is going to cheat on her ......she is going to have to learn to trust other man if she doesnt want to have another relationship fall apart due to her checking.......good luck
2006-12-11 05:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she suspected you of cheating, then that might be a valid reason for her doing this snooping. But the fact that she continues to want to do so even after the breakup indicates something wrong. She seems a little obsessive, wanting to find out as much about what you do and who you are in contact with.
I think she needs to back off and that no, she had no right to be angry - its like reading someone else's diary or phone book!
2006-12-11 05:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Paula879 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is NOT right to be mad...
Seems like she has major trust issues, and its a problem she needs to deal with, not you. Now if she found something in your phone that concerned her, then yes, she has every right to be mad if you locked your phone. But since you said she didn't find anything the first time around, then she shouldnt be mad.
2006-12-11 05:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by NestleGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she has no right to be mad. You're correct, that is an invasion of your privacy. Besides you're no longer together, thus it's definitely not her concern. I guess she's not holding up her end of the agreement to remain friends. If she continues to want to ck out your phone. Just let her know that the subject will NOT be discussed again....And let her know that you mean it!
2006-12-11 05:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really because you said that you had nothing to hide. So why should she want to go in your cell phone? Also, the two of you are no longer seeing each other so she shouldn't really care what's in your phone. I mean is she some kind of spy for the CIA or something?
2006-12-11 05:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has no right to get mad at you for locking YOUR OWN phone. That's yours and you can do want you please with it. She was only your girlfriend. And every time you see her she wants to see your phone there is no good reason for her to want to see your phone. I hope you stop letting her . She is trying to catch you slipping. She is playing with you. Can you imagine marry a person like that who would get mad over a phone. Stop feeding in to her. And the next time she ask to see your phone you tell her know that's OK ...................she has no business to your phone.
2006-12-11 05:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right on this. It was an invasion of your privacy and it's strange she's still mad about it. You're definitely better off without someone like that in your life.
2006-12-11 05:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by Ducky S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I realize the privacy issues here ... but if you wanted to set her mind at ease, you failed. Maybe she's been cheated on in the past. You shouldn't have locked the phone like that, even though she was technically snooping. You should have had a serious discussion about it. She was obviously insecure, but there could have been a legitimate reason for it. Your actions made it worse.
2006-12-11 05:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋