my friend was dating this guy online, but he broke up with her because he found a girl near him. he still tells my friend that he loves her but he also loves his new girlfriend. my friend doesnt know what to do and i dont know what to tell her. she was crying today. what should she do?
2006-12-11 05:08:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a player and will always be one, tell your friend to forget about him and move on. Life is long and there are many lessons to be learned, this is one of them.
A snake in the grass will always be a snake in the grass.
2006-12-11 05:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I want to say that it is great that you are such a good friend. How many people would take the time to seek help for a friend as you have? So, you are to be commended for that.
Secondly, I'd say that having you for a true friend is a good start on the road to healing. We all need someone to turn to in our hours of sadness.
The best thing you can do for your friend is be there for her. Let her know that this isn't about her...that she has a lot to offer. This guy clearly has issues within himself, ones she may not ever truly know since they were in a long distance relationship. If he was with her and someone else at the same time, she is doing well to be without him. He would have left her sooner or later, as he may not be satisfied with just one woman in his life.
Offer her a listening ear, and remind her that she is a great person who is going to find the right guy one day. Being there to listen may be the most important thing you could ever do for her.
My thoughts and prayers are with both you and your friend.
Blessings,
JustanAngel
2006-12-11 13:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by justanangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homeboy wants to have his cake and eat it too. He's playing games and he's LOVING the idea that two women want him. Tell your girlfriend that if he truly loved her, they wouldn't be in the situation now and he wouldn't be with another woman. Tell her to be strong and to move on. Show HIM that she's not wrapped around his finger. When she's crying, ask her, "Do you think he's crying for you right now? Do you think he's crying while he's out with this new girl?" Tell her to not waste anymore time on it. I know it's easier said than done but it's for the best.
2006-12-11 13:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by colombianqt_247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to move on and expects this guy wasn't the one, and absents doesn't help the relationship, shes still young there will be someone else that she can count on and trust. There was none of the above in this for her. Stop crying because you would cryin more later down the road with dude.
2006-12-11 13:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell her online guys are jerks and they guy that she is haveing right now i not worth her time. Tell her there are other guys other there...for her....
Also tell her that he doesn't love her because if he did he would not left her for a girl near him...
Best of luck! :O)
2006-12-11 13:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a willing transition guy, get crazy for spell and get on with her life.
Netloves are a dime a dozen. Eat 'em like popcorn.
After a few mouthfulls she's be the preditor not the prey. ;) Top of the food chain, Baby!
2006-12-12 06:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by misspearlnecklace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend shouldnt feel bad because if he loved her, he wouldnt care if she was far away. I live in cali, amd my bf lives in Kentucky, and Im 16, ad he's 17. We've been together for a year and 8 months now, and we still plan on being with each other, and he proposed to me. So, if I was your friend, I wouldnt care anymore. She should find someone else who wouldnt care about distance, or find someone closert to her. =)
2006-12-11 13:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by ThexSilentxOnex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would expect that dating in person would be more fun than dating online. Try to make your friend understand that.
And breaking up, has NOTHING to do with WHO she is. Let her also know that TIME is a marvelous healing feature.
2006-12-11 13:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she doesn't need him. He's not worth her tears or her time. He can't love her if he was looking for a girl closer to home. she needs to cut the strings with him he will only hurt her more. Good Luck
2006-12-11 13:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look online dating is the wrong thing to do u can never see him so whats the point of crying
2006-12-11 13:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by sweet heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋