My ex brok up with me two months ago. I still miss her and lover her. I know she has moved on and she has said so. Nothing "Major" happened for us to break up, she just said that there was something missing. We dated for 6 months and I though(obviously not) that we had a great relationship. Anyways, I have tried calling/emailing a couple times since and she won't respond. Anyways, after emailing her this past week to say hello and maybe see if she would like to talk sometime, she told me to not contact her at all!! I know I have to move on and will, but from a woman's perspective, why would someone who you were great friends for 6 months and talked and saw each other everyday want nothing to do with you when you treated her great/didn't cheat on her, treated her with respect. I know I should just leave her along and I will, but do women do this just so they can turn the page or what? I really miss talking with her..
2006-12-11 05:05:30 · 12 answers · asked by justinhanks2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women tend to avoid conflict at all cost. It may be that she liked you, but something was missing. Instead of having to get into details and explain things to you, she felt it was easier to avoid the situation all together.
My advice to you is to leave her alone. Calling her, or emailing her will only make things worse. If by some chance she may want you back, you don't want to blow it by looking like a desperate crazy man. If it was meant to be, it will happen, otherwise, move on.
PS This is pretty obvious stuff but you are blinded by love. Hopefully this will help you see what I'm sure you already know
2006-12-11 05:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by fly_girl_pc12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be about 'turning a page' but the reason I don't talk to my ex of 4yrs ago who is still trying to get back in contact with me is because I don't want to!
It sounds harsh but its the truth. We were great friends and very much in love for two years. Once I realised the relationship was not working there was simply no way for me that we could stay friends. he did not understand why things had to change.
She probably wants to move on in her life. That does not include you any more and you should leave her alone when she asks. I really don't want to upset you but that is likely to be the reason. If he had left me alone when I asked there is a very slim chance we may be friends now years later. Instead I find it scary and creepy that he is still trying.
2006-12-11 05:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by ..***.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men just get obsessive and don't move on. Maybe that's what she is afraid of. It's hard when an ex is always calling/emailing etc...it's like a guilt trip. If she's moved on maybe her new bf isn't comfortable with her keeping a good relationship with you. Who knows. It sounds like you need some closure before you can move on, unfortunately you won't be getting any answers from her. Try to distance yourself and who knows....maybe she'll get in contact with you later on when things are less fresh! Don't get your hopes up though.
2006-12-11 05:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im nt a girl. but my friend had similar experience... i think the girl just wants to forget you already. but hear this, if you cant get over with her, that means you really love her. this might be the most gayest answer on this post but man i know what you feel and you must be going on a terrible time right now but I tell you do not give up if you really love her. sometimes just calling and email dont work. you gota do something really extraodirany and special to win her back. just do it, after all you got nothing to lose. you have all the chances of winning her back again.
2006-12-11 05:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by imb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't feel bad! Two things 1) some girls just don't want to stay in touch, just leave the past behind you. Don't want to remember. It sucks but that's how it goes sometimes. You'll just be in her way. 2) Maybe she found out something about you that may not necessarily be true. She may have just jumped to conclusions. It hurts to meet someone awesome and the next day they just leave our hearts. That's why just keep her as a forgotten memory. It will hurt less. Peace
2006-12-11 05:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants a clean break and by her actions she doesn't want to be friends with you. It seems like the 6 months you were together was more important to you, then her. She might also be dating someone now. I think its best for you to move on as well and forget about her.
2006-12-11 05:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tabitha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect that she needs something else in her life. It's hard at first to let go but eventually it gets easier. Love isn't always fair but once you move on, you'll see. For now, it hurts alot because you loved her. Just try to do things to keep yourself occupied. It helps alot. Everyone has experienced a broken heart... you'd be surprised. So you'll be upset now but you have to try to move on eventually. good luck
2006-12-11 05:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE YOU WERE A STOP IN-BETWEEN. DID SHE TELL YOU THAT SHE LOVED U? I THINK YOU HAVE BEEN A REBOUND GUY...AND SHE STARTED TO SEE SOME ONE ELSE AS YOU WERE DATING HER AND FOUND THE GRASS WAS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE,OR SHE WENT BACK TO THE GUY SHE WAS SEEING BEFORE YOU AND DON'T WANT HIM TO KNOW ABOUT YOU...MOVE ON SHE IS WAY OVER YOU...SHE WAS NEVER A FRIEND..
2006-12-11 05:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. There is nothing you can do to change her mind. You are going to end up looking like a crazy person if you don't.
2006-12-11 05:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kid mah boi did the same thing we dated 4 a month sumtin dum hannen n he dumped meh n now he wont talk 2 meh n he wants 2 get wit mah best friend....MAN HORE ... lol but i still have feelings 4 him 2 n he wont say a word 2 meh...so its not jus girls its yuh guys 2 ...theres jus sum ****** up ppl n eventually u'll get over her....i hope i get over him 2...
2006-12-11 08:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋