Well Im talking to this guy, and everything is going ok. But I really like him, and everybody tells me he likes me too.But he is really shy. I really like and I wanna ask him out.
2006-12-11 05:04:59 · 26 answers · asked by shenequa t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I once was in a very similiar situation and the guy was extremely shy. I realized that if I didn't do something, he would never ask me out. So one day, I encountered him in a hallway at work and we were just chatting a little bit...and I decided to say something about a movie I was wanting to see and whether or not he had seen it yet. He said he hadn't...and it was an opening for me to ask him if he wanted to go with me. It came out nice and friendly (not too forward) and he agreed. While that relationship didn't last forever, it was around for a good six years. It's easier to ask then you might imagine.
2006-12-11 05:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lunasea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well girl, First off I am sure you heard the saying in life that men dont like an agressive women. Truth is thats crap.Men, especially shy guys, ussually have alot in their hearts but are afraid of affending women so they think what they want but dont act out in fear of the wrong reaction.Most shy guys are humble do to how they were raised and always want to be respectful.
You can be forward and agressive without making him run for the hills.Just make little jestures. Smile alot, put your hand on his shoulder or touch him in some way when you talk with him.This will help to loosen him up and feel more relaxed with you and will give him a good indication that you are truly interested in him more than just friends.If this dont work, next time when you are saying goodbye,put one hand on each of his shoulders, look into his eyes and plant a quick kiss on his lips.Then step back smile a bit devilish and say give me a call soon!.I can guarantee he will be calling you to go out in no time at all.
I know it sounds bold but I can tell you from experience, I used to be the shy guy and thankfully there was a girl who I liked that got a little bold with me and got me to react or otherwise I might still be a virgin! LOL!! Good luck!
2006-12-11 13:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up or meet him.. and ask him if he wants to go out for dinner.. when you meet him up have a good conversation be into him in other word ask proactive questions about him.. like ask him how his day went... make a good flow happend..
then let him know.. say.. you know I really you and I was hoping maybe if you feel the same we could go out on a date sometime..
if he says yes.. you can start from there little dates at a time and then when you to feel like you can become more all will come into place
2006-12-11 13:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Miss Mimzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sheniqua - just find out what kind of stuff he likes to do, and invite him to go out with you. For instance, if he likes movies, tell him you want to take him to a movie - if he likes to party, tell him that there's this great club that you want to take him to. It's just that simple - he'll probably say yes and you and him will have a great time.
2006-12-11 13:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pull him to a secluded spot and say " I really like you. are you interested in me" Then stare lustfully into his eyes and slowly bring your lips to his, and begin kissing him softly, nibble by nibble until you see that he is accepting you.
Then look at him and say " I wanna go out with you. How does friday sound"?
2006-12-11 13:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Crissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know something that you both like to do ,like a football game at school or a dance is coming up say are you going to the game or dance if he answer yes say ill see you there save me a set or a dance and walk away. if he likes you he'll be there looking for you and you ll know when your eyes meet that he there for you.
2006-12-11 13:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlittlerowanandmia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your already talking to him--Then what is to keep you from just saying -"hay lets get together some time and grab a pizza or go shake a leg....
2006-12-11 13:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by D Coy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to put a small smile on your face, and just walk up to him and talk softly and nice and just say, you know I have noticed you, and I want the two of us to go out on a date, when can you pick me up
do not give him a way out
just do it
2006-12-11 13:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by david s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When next you talk to him, say, "Hey, there's this really cool coffee shop/ restaurant/ film, wanna join me there?"
It will be easier if its done casually, like something you say to any guy... not all self-conscious like "Will you come on a date with me"...
2006-12-11 13:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Paula879 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is simple. Pick an event or activity (i.e. a movie, out for a cup of coffee) and ask him to go with you.
2006-12-11 13:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋