Recently I posted that my son's dad was a liar, deadbeat, felon and addict alchie. All of which is true but his behavoir lately towards me was deplorable because he knew I had feelings still and so did he. We were going to work our relationship out but things got worse for him where he lives and it is his own fault and he knows this. He had sex with a crazy woman and she got pregnant. Still not sure if it is his but since he may go back to jail and he lost his place, he's staying with her and he's mad claims he don't really love her but she thinks so. I know she is jealous of me cuz he talks about me to her and had told her he wanted us together again. But he admitted that he is messed up with his health and legal situation and does not want me or his around at this time. I have come grips that he is not for me and I need to focus on me and son. But I still feel as long as she is there in the pic. my son does not visit cuz she don't like hearing about him either and she butts in too.
2006-12-11 05:04:37 · 3 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had to accept this fact about my ex "it is perfectly OK to love him, but I do not have to live with him" I try and be there for him when he asks, but other than that, we are both on our own. When he brings up relationship stuff, tell him it is over and you do not want to talk about it anymore. When he is sober and ready he can visit with his son, but other wise keep his destructive life style to himself.
It is Very hard, esp when you really do love him. But we can only take so much, and are worth so much more.
2006-12-11 05:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too confusing, all MY life dramas are soooooooooo much simpler than that.
It sounds like maybe he is a bad guy and you should let him go.
2006-12-11 13:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN RUN RUN RUN
2006-12-11 13:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋