do you think its right to go back to your ex b/f that cheated on you many times if u love him with allur heart
2006-12-11 04:07:49 · 25 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, cuz he'll do the same again u'll be hurted
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2006-12-11 04:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Muteki na Bengoshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheated on me once and that was over a year and I still love him with all my heart but I could never take him back. Once trust is broken it is very hard to get back. I want to be with somebody I can trust 100% and that I am not gonna worry about. Life is too short. It will always be somewhere in your head that he cheated on you serveral times. You can't forget that. Find somebody you can trust and leave your ex alone. I am not trying to sound mean if he truly loved you and respected you he would not of cheated on you so many time. You deserve better but you have to demand it. A person can only do to you what you let them do. So it is pretty much what you can handle and what you feel you desereve.
2006-12-11 12:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. Do what your heart tells you. If you are ok with hi cheating and can cope if he was to do it again and still love him fully, then yes. but are you sure that therir isnt a person out the there who could offer you all the same and more whilst being monogamous/
look deep into your heart, that is where you iwill find the answer.
2006-12-11 12:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to the indiviual person but i would not go back if i was cheated on multiple times with the same guy...hell NO!!!! Once a cheater always a cheater and do not let him fool you otherwise.If you go back, you are just showing him he can whatever he wants and you will keep coming back to him. Trust me, you deserve better. You may not think it now, but you deserve a lot better!!!
2006-12-11 12:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your asking this question but i think what ever advice you get you are still going to do what your heart tells you to do....but if i were you i would move forward instead of backwards its not worth the pain so no i don't think it would be right to go back to someone who is not faithful ...cause what their saying to you is they are not completely happy with you and that you are not fulfilling their needs, b/c if thats so they wouldnt go out looking else where....so no i wouldnt go back to a cheater cause more than likely it is going to happen again...but of course it's all up to you and all i can do is give you advice but i hope you make the right decision after all.
2006-12-11 12:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would understand if you went back to him after he cheated on you the first time but you said..."many times." Why would you want to keep on settling for something like that? Don't get love confused with: " needing to be with someone." Yea, you love him but if he loves you, he wouldn't keep on cheating over and over on you; and with you keeping on giving him chances after chances, he probably just sees you as someone he can have to cling around. Re-evaluate yourself and what you want from a guy then you can base your decision from that. Good luck!
2006-12-11 12:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by pangfvlx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater... If your ex is gunna sit there and cheat on you once and you take them back then they are going to think it is okay if they cheat on you and your going to make it look like you dont care if you are cheated on and its also going to make it look like you dont really have feelings... Personally I think you could do better than a cheater...
2006-12-11 12:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by lil_miss_lynn33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he cheated many times chances are he will again. Love has to come from both people and he does't sound like he is in love.
2006-12-11 12:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooo, have you never heard, once a cheater, always a cheater? but despite that....do you really think u can trust him after he cheated on you? because if not, even if he's 100% faithful now, unconsciously you still wouldn't trust him 100%, and that's hard to keep a relationship.
2006-12-11 12:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Chia Pet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! He11 NO!!! If you love him with all of your heart then your heart will mend and you will find someone else--- someone who will treat you right. Don't let this guy keep walking all over you. I don't even know you, but I know you deserve better than that.
2006-12-11 12:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should go back with him but this time you should tell him that you are giving him only this chance and if he does it again just break up with him and look for some Else cause there's alto fish in the sea and you don't have to be with only with one guy.
2006-12-11 12:12:02 · answer #11 · answered by angelica v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋