I have the worst feeling i could ever have!!?

Question

I have the worst feeling i could ever have!!?
i dont know how to say it i dont know how to explain it i have many questions why???
i am so scared i dont want him to die i really dont!!
my two uncles got in a fight and started stabing eachother one of them got stabbed 15 times even in the head and my other uncle got stabbed once and then tried to kill him self for doing what he did he got in a bad car accident and now they might both die i am so scared my grandparents dont know yet they are old and with many problems i am so scared of what their reaction might be my grandpah might get a heart attack and it might be the last one he gets i dont think he would survive and grandmah what will she think her two favorite kids trying to kill eachother???
what should i do ?? i need advice!!
am so worried and scared i reallly need help!!!!
any good advice?????????????????

Answer 1

Go to the nearest clinic and talk to someone to find a social worker or therapist to help you find the best way to deal with this. It's normal to have many questions on your mind in such situations and so you need to talk (face to face ) to people whom you can trust that will help you.

Answer 2

That sounds quite bad,you must be so traumatised.The best thing to do is calm down with sugar water,breath in a paperbag and try push everything you saw to the back of your mind.The next step is to talk to others around you that were affected(those whose health you care about)No-one knows what the outcome will be for both your uncles so the best thing to do is try cheer yourself and everyone else up.So as to keep them in good health.I know this will be hard to do.You might need councelling to get over this in the long run.I feel for you,goodluck...

Answer 3

You cannot be responsible for the actions of your uncles or the feelings of your grandparents. you have to protect YOU and do what you can to make sure you get over this. Your grandparents are adults and they will know how to survive, too. You must seek out some rational and caring adult to help you - where are you parents in all of this, by the way?

Look after yourself.

Answer 4

Girl I am so sorry to hear this. It is a very tough situation. I think try and do something to keep your thoughts away from what happened. Go visit close friends or relatives. Listen to your favourite CD or website. Stay strong and cry if if you need. Let this incident take its natural course and thank God you were not harmed.

Answer 5

This is way bigger than you. It might sound selfish, but you really should make sure you are ok first. Talk to a lot of people about what is going on, talk about your feelings and lean on your friends and other people you can trust. I hope your family can recover from all this. Just try to lean on each other for a while.

Answer 6

I'm not so sure that there is anything that you can do.

Know that none of this is your fault. It's sad that you have been exposed to this violence. I can assure you, this behavior is not normal.

Rise above all of this, stay in line, study hard and make yourself a successful person. That will demonstrate to them the way life should be.

Answer 7

Calm down and relax. Making yourself anxious is horrible, and worry is just a state of mind. Remember none of this is your fault, and pray everything will be ok but if it isn't - everything happens for a reason. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. My cousin died because of a similar incident with guns.

Answer 8

first of all you need to calm down just a little and look at the situation think about how they are doing and dont tell you grandparents if you feel its not right if you feel they are in danger then dont tell them

Answer 9

You need to talk with a social worker about gettiing far away from this family

Answer 10

girl you just need to sit down and take a breath and tlk with both of your uncles.