i am NOT saying rape or perverted acts but do you think its ok to love adocolecnts boys or girls, or pedestry of sort and even have sex with you ONLY if they want to and they know their own sexuality, like age 14 and up? if you have anything negative to say please tell me in eleborate statment.
2006-12-11 04:00:51 · 38 answers · asked by drake b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Young children do not know what love is except for family type love. Please do not do that. It will mess their lives up. You should find an adult to show your love to.
2006-12-11 04:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noone between the ages of 14-17 is truly ready or secure enough in themesleves or their sexuality to be ready for sexual acts, especially with an older person. If they do claim to be ready at such a young age they may be searching for love or acceptance that they arent getting from their family/community so during the time from or after during puberty a psychological sexual response is developed and it is a BAD answer to an even worse problem.
So basically, care about the mental and emotional well being of the younger people. If anything that is just taking advantage of them because as I said before, no young person really knows what they want. With hormones flying and the pressures of youth young people are very unstable. Their frontal lobes havent grown to capacity yet (frontal lobe is the region of the brain used for reasoning skills)Im young and sometimes I still dont know what I want, so be responsible and find someone your own age please.
2006-12-11 04:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by flyingtomercy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there are children at 16 who are as developed mentally and phsyically as those at 18.
That being said, I think that unless a couple is close in age (say 5ish years) there is more going on in a relationship than pair bonding. I think that couples with a wider gap in age are fulfilling other psychological needs beyond the need for a mate and with a child that young (14-21ish) they need someone their own age to figure out their own life without the complication of an authoritative daddy or mommy figure that also has sex with them.
I think there is no possible way that someone 25+ can truly love someone younger than say 19. The life experiences are just too far apart.
2006-12-11 04:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong especially if your over 18. Kids want attention and if they are not getting love from a parent or feel left out it is easy for people to take advantage of that. A lot of confused kids get crushes on adults all the time and if an adult finds this out it is so messed up if they take advantage of a crush or love. I think that is the diffrence between Love and Crushes. Love in a romantic/partner sense is after you become an adult. A kid has a crush. I hope you are not an adult. If you are you should squash any thoughts of kids. Acting on anything can cause so much pain in a young persons life and yours.
2006-12-11 08:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by lprjohnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody over 18 should be in love with someone that is 14 and up, they don't know what love is, they think they do, but they don't. . I hate to say it, but hopefully your an adult, and think about this, no boy or girl at that age, knows the difference, and most of them do it because they think, if they do it someone loves them!!!!!! It would be wrong, and I hate to say it, but I think people agree with me, someone that does this stuff, should sit in prison for a very long time, or worse!
2006-12-11 04:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright well do u still talk 2 her? You should just try 2 be friends and then u can see what happens. You shouldnt be worring about the other kids especially the ones that gossip there stupid and they dont got a life thats why they gossip cause they like 2 feel like there part of someone elses life. so just also if u want just talk 2 her. tell her how u feel.
2016-05-23 05:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!! If you are an adult and feel like you need the acceptance and affection of young children, then you know what that is called. At 14 they do not know what they are doing when an adult requests this from them. They have only the perception of you as an authority figure, and they must do as you say or influence them to do. It is wrong! It is called preying upon children and their naitivity.
2006-12-11 04:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pedophilia is sick. If you are looking for rationlizations, you are sick.
If you are looking for large arguments to pick apart you are still sick.
They are babies, not yet fully formed. Their mind body soul and heart are undergoing radical changes. They arent in a position where they can talk without it being in part the madness of teenage years and hormones talking. In 10 years they will be a radically different person, and wont have the opportunity to unmake those bad choices.
You should put them in a situation that gives them more choices in the future, and more freedoms instead of asking how you can justify taking away their future freedom to choose when.
Sex with a minor is a crime. Anyone who advocates for this form of pedophilia is sick! Sick sick sick!
2006-12-11 04:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Underage children cannot give consent. It's like having sex with someone who is unconscious!
If you are attracted to children -- and 14 is still a child -- then get help to re-channel your sexual behavior and fantasies toward more appropriate partners. Or risk jail time. You are on a dangerous path for everyone concerned.
2006-12-11 04:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by joanmazza 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can love them but if you really do love them then you'll wait for them for a couple of years untill they are "legal".
There are some countries that the age of consent is like 12yrs.
But that is sick goverments!
I knew my girlfriend since she was 14 and I was 22, I didn't persue her till she was 16. she's 18 now and we are perfect for each other.
2006-12-11 04:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by interface2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dude its completely wrong. Morally wrong. Lawfully wrong.
Your are going to get into trouble if you continue onwards like this.
Please man or chick go seek some medical treatment. Do this before you hurt someone. Or deflower thier innocence.
You could destroy a younger person with these thoughts.
Ooh I have a suggestion, go rent the film HARd Candy.
2006-12-11 04:04:43 · answer #11 · answered by d2poolplaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋