My BF has no job & lives off off me in my appartment. He never gave me any gifts (X-mas, valentines day, birthday) he always had a great excuse, he still ain't working I bought a car he took it from me he lives with me & on our anniversary he went & got his 10 month old son that is now staying with us as well. He never asked me how I felt he just went & got him & now I am supposed to be happy. He gets mad if I am not nice to his son or if I have an attitude. I don't know why but I just dont want to play house no more my bills are stacking & are not getting paid with or without him & I am just sad, cause yea I love him but why do I have to compromise all the time. What about the things that matter to me? I told him to leave on saturday, I was so sure I wanted him gone all sunday long he argued with me then he went & picked hi son up from his mom & came back & pretended like we never had that convo, I had attitude unitl I went to work. He just called & asked if I wanted him to move today
2006-12-11 03:29:46 · 18 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to get bent!
No one needs this kind of aggravation and maybe the old adage "You have to be cruel to be kind" will work on him and prompt him to sort his f*cking life out!!
Fingers crossed for you honey!
2006-12-11 03:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you should have gotten rid of that boy a long time ago. if you don't do domething now he's just gonna keep taking advantage of you. and now he's brought his son into the pic? that little boy is not your responsibility. yeah, so you knew he had a kid when you got together, but you guys are not married so you are not obligated to support that kid. get rid of this guy, you say you love him, but does he love you? because if you really love someone you don't take advantage of them and it seems that he just along for the free ride. tell him to grow a pair and get a job to help you pay bills! you are not his momma!
2006-12-11 03:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by menolikey811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets be real honey, you are one of these sistas that tell people that you are looking for a spiritual man with values and instead you settled for Tyrone. The thug with the 5th grade education, no job, and now you can't get rid of him huh?
You know the answer to your question, now make it happen. Good luck.
2006-12-11 03:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by Belize69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mass can not get grow to be smaller with velocity. i think of theoretically mass will become greater to infinity as you techniques-set the linked fee of sunshine, yet i'm no whiz on relativity so please no one grill me if i'm incorrect. As for having no mass, in simple terms thinking Newton's 2nd regulation of action destroys that. F=ma; if mass grow to be 0 and engine grow to be exerting a stress (to renounce it slowing right down to air resistance) acceleration could rocket to infinity, which it needless to say would not. additionally, perhaps yet differently to think of a bike without mass could be to think of it in a gravitational field. No mass, subsequently no weight could advise the slightest bump, or perhaps in simple terms the curvature of the Earth could reason an area motorbike! All i'm able to think of is that possibly your pal grow to be attempting to describe why a 2 wheeled motorbike falls over on an identical time as table sure yet is totally sturdy on an identical time as shifting alongside. that is because of the gyroscopic results of the wheels and their angular velocity. i don't comprehend all of that stuff the two, I in simple terms positioned it right down to the complexities of technology and go away it at that. wish I helped.
2016-12-13 06:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out he is not and why should he move he has everything going his way,,,,You take care of him if you want totake care of someone and his son You are very insecure as a person so The first step is tokick him out, and cut him off,,
2006-12-11 03:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is really taking advantage of you.Kick him out.I understand that it's going to be hard but imagine this routine 3 years from now,how will you feel then?Do not let him manipulate you.He does nothing for you at all besides give you grief.Move on...
2006-12-11 03:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
R u a loser to still keep him... yes kick him out. Sorry but some women are just suckers and too dependent on a man
2006-12-11 03:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start taking his kid to work with you so he has time to do the things he likes to do. You should be happy to support him forever if he decides that's what he wants. The kid too.
I'm just kidding. He sounds like a great person. Maybe you should just move next time he leaves.
2006-12-11 03:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by CoreSpeedMetalThrashGenreRockRap 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like to need to tell him to hit the door and don't let it him him in the asss on the way out.Find you a REAL man hun(-;
2006-12-11 03:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You let packages that don't even belong to you make you unhappy. They don't belong to you,send the packages back to where they came from and get your car back and use the authorities.
2006-12-11 04:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋