I dated this guy a couple times for a few months. I REALLY liked him, but things just didn't work out..he has comitment issues..
Well, just recently his roommate..and best friend.. has been calling me, texting me, and hanging out.
Is it wrong of me or him to be doing this? I still kind of talk to the other guy, but I haven't even seen him since September.
2006-12-11 03:22:43 · 9 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not wrong at all. If the guy has commitment issues then don't bother chasing after him. If his roommate can satisfy your needs then there is nothing about getting together with him, the other guy will understand since he clearly was not interested in anything solid and just wants to play around.
2006-12-11 03:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one. I suggest talking to the other guy - the one you used to date - and making sure that he's ok with you dating his roommate.
2006-12-11 11:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who is older and wiser... even tho you were quite attracted to the first one,, move on!!! If he calls, say you want to see others, and if you feel the need to say its his friend,, do so. Just be honest, and there will be nothing to hide. The second one may just be the right one for you. Good luck!
2006-12-11 11:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by mickster440 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it. Things didn't work out. The guy couldn't committ so its his loss. The friend is obviously interested, so what does it hurt to give him a shot.
2006-12-11 11:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always disagreed with dating friends or even dating within circles for that matter. If you don't care what the other guy thinks then I say, why not, but becareful they might be playing you.
2006-12-11 11:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl its not wrong... It cant be as bad as my situation I'm dating some guy who i used to see younger brother... And it couldn't get any better... And you said you only were dating him? Then its fine and if he has a problem with it then let him know it was his lost not yours... Have Fun...
2006-12-11 11:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? Some people are more compatible than others. If it was his brother, then it would be creepy. But its his friend, so go for it.
2006-12-11 11:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure that you and the other guy are OFFICIALLY off and sure why not, go ahead with his roomate...its not like you guys were really serious
2006-12-11 11:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong if you want something with his friend, well both of them. but you're just friends then its ok
2006-12-11 11:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by love me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋