I have been with this girl who is now my girlfriend. We been seeing each other for 2 weeks. We kiss , we hug..and she feels funny when i kiss her on her neck. She kinda hold back when i touch her thight! Should i wait until she is ready to do it? She ask me last night " What if i would say wait a year? Should i wait that long? Guys what is your point of yours? Girls what up?
2006-12-11 03:21:08 · 15 answers · asked by yummy_tummyus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But i have touch her boobie..lol she will let me go there but not kiss her neck or rub her thight. But she likes when i rub her booty..lol
Why is she doing this?
2006-12-11 03:36:07 · update #1
She can say no forever.....and you dont touch.
How long do you want to wait?
Hugs and kisses are part and parcel of day to day life. If she is having problems with that then ask yourself if YOU can live with it.
But 2 weeks? Give her some time.
2006-12-11 03:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she ever had sex before? if she has i think a year is a long time to wait and if not then maybe you should. i dont know why someone would give you a set time. i mean it's normal to tell someone i want to wait until i feel comfortable, but saying a year is a little weird. i mean how will she know she will be ready then? if you care about her than wait it out, if not move on. i know sex isn't everything in a relationship but it is a big part of it.
2006-12-11 03:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what she means to you. Do you love her?
If you truly love her then you'll wait as long as she needs you to wait.
If you feel like you just can't wait then maybe it's more of a lust thing. If so, you should probably move on to someone more accommodating and let your now GF move on and find a man willing to wait for her.
2006-12-11 03:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by mrspunkmeister2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look you should probably just wait or she probably feels really uncomfortable. ask her if she feels like that. cuz when my boyfriend does that to me i ignore it. i try not to flip out. cuz im like that. when a boy touches me in a different kind of way i get all agressive and stuff like that. so yeah just wait till she is ready. later on in two months or so. shell probably feel like she is ready.
2006-12-11 03:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by chicana nativo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you what to be with this girl wait but if you just want to have sex with her don't waste her time
She may be a virgin and is waiting for the right guy don't push
2006-12-11 03:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by cutecamille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say as a woman if the relationship feels right and you think that this is the girl then its worth the wait
2006-12-11 03:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by rudezgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has only been 2 weeks! Give it some time and get to know her first.
2006-12-11 03:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only been 2 wks, and evidentally she is not ready for more..and whats wrong with that? every girl/woman does not hop into the sack immediately. If you truly like her, you will respect her wishes, and if she falls for you,, it will all take its course.
2006-12-11 03:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by mickster440 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to make sure she doesn't make a mistake. Theres nothing wrong with waiting. It probley won't even be a year. Be patient.
2006-12-11 03:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by jennidixon186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to wait. you havnt been seeing this girl that long reall, and if you care for her, and want the relationship to work, then you should wait. you need to make her feel safe, not worrying whether your actions are gonna lead to sex. talk to her, tell her your going to wait for her, if thats what you really want.
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-11 03:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by hiddengirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋