My boyfriend and I have fantasies about being w/ two very different people than what we are. For example, I fantasize about being w/ an older man... my boyfriend is younger than me.. and he fantasizes about being w/ a younger woman.. I am 31 and he is 27. We don't have a problem w/ our sex life.. it is very good in fact.. a nightly occurence.. I just wanted opinions on why is it we are not w/ the type of person we fantasize about.. and if it would cause problems in the future!
2006-12-11 03:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by mimi941 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think its normal,,, everyone wants what they don't have.
2006-12-11 03:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by laydenirvine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are very normal - if you do not fantasize then you have issues. It is when you want to take those to reality that there is an issue.
2006-12-11 03:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by Gitix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are together you need to accept each other for who you are. if you wanted someone in your age group you should have gone after them in the first place. you must not really fantacize about other people when you went after each other...maybe your new fantasys are each other
2006-12-11 03:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you and your b/f has the trust then you should both fulfill your fantasize if its meant to be in the end you will be together
2006-12-11 03:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by rudezgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he should dress up as a older man for you and you dress up as a young woman for him. live your fantasy !!
2006-12-11 03:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rainy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal!
2006-12-11 03:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by jennidixon186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are both losers in denial. For a better future suck it up.
2006-12-11 03:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
EVERYONE HAS FANTISIES...WHEN IT BECOMES AN EVERYNGHT THING YOU HAVE PROBLEMS.....DONT EVER ACT THEM OUT.....ITS JUST A LITTLE FUN....ROLE PLAY...YOU LITTLE FREAK...
2006-12-11 03:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋