Okay I Broke Up With My Boyfriend(now ex-ish) Because He Just Didnt Understand That Im Not Permantly His And He Was Just Being Weird But Now He So Much Better Cuz He Got Help And Hes Sweeter And Nicer And Back To How He Was. BUT The Thing Is I Now Have A GirlFriend Who Is Sweet And Stuff And She Abosulutly Adores Me! But Ive Started To Get Back With My Ex So I Guess Im Kinda Cheating On Her... And I Hate It But I Just Dont Like Her Like That Anymore. And Honestly I Want Back With My Ex Cuz I Never Stopped Loving Him I Just Had To Show Him A Point. But I Cant Break Up With My GF Cuz Then All My Friends Will Hate Me For Hurting Her Cuz They Arent Good Friends With Me But They Are All I Have And They Are Protective Over My GF. So What The Crap Should I Do!?! Ugg. Im So Stuck.
2006-12-11 03:11:26 · 6 answers · asked by Katt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so, u r staying with ur GF coz u dont want ur friends who arent good friends of yours anyways to hate u? and u go with ur GF coz u wanna teach ur BF/exBF a lesson? and now u say u still love him? and u are cheating on your GF coz u wanna be with ur ex-BF and yet feel bad abt it but u dont like her anymore? darn girl, u r a bit screwed up in your head. i mean, its actually quite normal that this happen, but it is also so very lame unfortunately. and a bit inconsiderate and childish on your part. but sometimes we all do that, being childish and inconsiderate. so, now, time to stop this before u hurt even more people.
break up with the girl. u will do her more good than bad by breaking up. if ur frens dont agree, well, sorry. they will just sentence ur GF to hell if u stay with her coz she deserve someone who loves her truly and not just being used as a rebound. well granted im sure u liked her before, infatuated or something.
abt the ex, well i dunno if that will last, but thats how u feel so its better to see how that will turn out as u both care abt each other. whatever the outcome, the GF must be freed from your evil clutches... (joking, not saying u r evil, just tht u have lapse of judgement...)
all d best..
2006-12-11 03:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by jiwaku79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello i think if u reaaly love your BF then u wouldnt care what anyone thought. Also if u no longer have feelings for your GF then u should just dump her now before shes gets to attached and then it makes it more difficult because if u wait to long then u might not be able to break up with her so then u wouldnt know if u and ur ex could have been better off together. but just dont wait to long.
2006-12-11 16:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by someone who cares 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first thing first. Once someone acts that way they usually always will. I am assuming that you Bi Sexual if you are with a girl now. I am sorry but you cant just stop feeling for someone that quick, so you are either lying to yourself or u never felt that way for her. Also, I understand that you dont have many friends, but if they cant stay friends with you after you break up with your GF then they are not worth having, trust me on that one.
2006-12-11 11:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with your girlfriend and tell her you still have feelings for your ex. Let her know that she didn't do anything wrong and that you should have taken more time before jumping into another realtionship. Maybe she will understand.
2006-12-11 11:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation 2 years ago i think it would be best to sit and talk with your g/f cuz it really hurts to find out that your mate is cheating..........but you wanna sit and really think about weather your ex is going to change back to his old ways you know what they say its hard to teach and old dog new tricks
2006-12-11 11:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by rudezgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drop your female lover so quick.....that boyfriend of yours might start to act up again.......I think that boyfriend of yours is trouble.
2006-12-11 11:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by dee r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋