what do yall think about a 16yr old gurl, dating a 20yr old guy, i mean if you are mature enough why not!!!
im asking for advice not wanting anyone to be trying rude or mean.
2006-12-11 02:21:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think theres an unwritten law that somebody who is older than 18 should not date anybody under 18, its just a bit weird like that, 16 is still in the teens whilst 20's are adults= teens dating adults..yeaaa abit weird.. i mean what does a 20 yr old guy have in common with a 16 yr old girl? and hes most likely just after sex..
but saying that my friend started dating her 25 yr old bf when she was 17 and there still going strong, but still its really big age gap
2006-12-11 02:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see it as why would a 20 yo guy want to date a 16 yo? My little sister is 17 and I wouldnt approve her dating someone that isnt in the same place in life as her. I mean she didnt even graduate yet and he did plus some
2006-12-11 10:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by BrooklynQT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best to be friends and hang out if its something both of ya want but still fact is u are not of consent age to be with a 20y/o man and if something happens things could really go wrong. if he cares alot for u he will wait for u. after 18 age doesnt matter are u taking this guy to the prom? will u be seen in public and over for dinner with ur parents? think about it thats all but be safe and best wishes
2006-12-11 10:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by red_oassis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just so you know, if you have sex with him it is considered a rape, but otherwise its fine. If you get married, when your 50 and hes 54 its not gonna really matter. I would go for it. You never know what the future holds. My dads coworker is 10 years older than his wife.
2006-12-11 10:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah V 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say i would think that is kinda old but thats coming from a 14 yr old......but if you think about it, its not that much of an age difference, my aunt and uncle are 10 years apart in age..........so i think that i wouldn't too much of it after a while....
2006-12-11 10:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by Marsha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can see what a 16 yr old would see in a 20 yr old guy
but not what a 20yr old guy would see in a 16 yr old girl..............except someone he could manipulate into giving it up
whatever floats your boat honey - just dont end up getting used
2006-12-11 10:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by asshat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age don't matter . Go 4 it! wooo whoo! u shouldn't care of what people say Follow ur Heart sweety!
2006-12-11 12:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably about even maturity i reckon but if you live in the usa it's illegal. If you're in Australia, you can shag all you like.
I don't think there's a big deal but your parents may think different
2006-12-11 10:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're jail bait honey! The law doesn't care how mature you are, only how old you are!
2006-12-11 12:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be a bit older to date a 20 year old..wait until you are 18 and he is 22..*that was nice!
2006-12-11 10:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋