so this kidd .. has been in love with me for like 4 years. && I decided to give him a chance. but now I realize that i dont really like him that much.. shouuld i just let him go or stay with him and let it ride outt. which might hurt him more ??
2006-12-11 02:21:17 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's madly in love with me for over 4 years. we've been best friends for a long time && i decided to give him a chance, but now that im with him i just dont feel the same at all... & he told my frienn that if i breakk up with him he'll take a razor to his neckk. so i'm afraidd to breakk up with him & have to deall with him doing that. but i really dont like him at all & i dont want this to keep going on like thiss.. do i stay with him or let him go ?
2006-12-11 06:24:42 · update #1
Let him go. Do it in a kind way. Stringing him along will hurt him more in the long run. Someone said to wait until after Christmas but I think you should do it now. If you don't care for the guy would you want to buy him a Christmas gift which could send him the message that you care about him? Breaking up with someone is never an easy thing because someone always get hurt. It's better to hurt now and get it over with. Just let him down gently.
2006-12-11 02:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Billie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i was faced with this situation four years ago. i started dating a guy who was in to me, and i wasn't that into him. I rode it out for two months and we're still together. it was the best decision of my life! Focus on the good things about him and what you like, instead of what bothers you. give him a fair shot. If he completely repulses you, or you're not attracted to him, them just be honest and tell him the truth. But you'll never know unless you give it a shot!
2006-12-11 10:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stringing him along will hurt more.
Break-up with him. Although you might want to be considerate and wait until after Christmas.
2006-12-11 10:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know as soon as possible ... its gonna hurt in any case so why waste each others time man ... he'll get over it
2006-12-11 10:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tried and it doesn't work tell him that you want to be just friends. Tell him he's a great guy, but your just not wanting it to be a relationship.
2006-12-11 10:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by jennidixon186 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right, stringing him along will hurt him more. pls let him go....nicely
2006-12-11 10:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Let him go. You wouldn't want someone to do that to you would you?
2006-12-11 10:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well figure out what you really want and dont let him get heart broken!
2006-12-11 10:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him frankly and close the chapter.
2006-12-11 10:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by shreya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋