its strange but when ever i meet a girl and she asks if im single, i say yes but they never belive me...im not blowing my own trumpet but some girls say im good looking and can have most girls...but thge thing is i only want one decent one, but they either think im playing around..or they get over proteced jelous and it never works out? difficult question i know, but how can i convince somone im a genuine decent guy?
2006-12-11 02:20:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's cos girls (and men too) assume someone good looking will just get off with lots of other attractive people, just because they can. You need a girl who is as secure and confident as you, someone who is happy with themselves, regardless of their looks. I assumed that of my bf as he is very good looking and had a bit of a rep before we got together, but he adores me and after a while I realised I had nothing to feel insecure about. GOOD LUCK, you sound like a decent guy.
2006-12-11 03:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how it is done young Skywalker. Don't tell them your currently single because you have not found the right girl. Most girls think they cant live up to those expectations so turn it around on them. Ask them why should they let someone as decent as yourself and of good looks as yourself ( from your own words) be single for long. Make them know your single, but not for long.
2006-12-11 02:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Armadura/ Eco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls have fallen for a guy like you who has then turned out to be a complete b*stard.
Sorry hun, you are destined to be alone...forever!
Only joking, you are gonna have to do all you can to convince them. It will take time for them to get to know you and learn to trust you. Give them your number and see what happens. I was very apprehensive with my boyf when we first got together. He was a doorman (with a doormans rep) so I didn't think I could trust him....7 years now and he hasn't let me down and I trust him with my life. It took a good few months til the trust was there and secure in the beginning, but I am so glad we both made it.
Or post your number on Y!A, coz there are always broken hearted girls looking for a decent good looking honest and trustworthy guy to re-inforce their faith in the male species!
Good luck!
2006-12-11 02:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Liggy Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words when it comes to females knowing if a dude is quality or not.
Timing is everything. In time, they will see that your intentions are nothing shy of noble and will believe you.
Stay somewhat mysterious. Don't spill your guts telling them your life's story. Let your actions do most of the talking and reveal what is necessary at the appropriate times.
Do the above, and you'll find yourself a mate. If not that, then she'll find you.
2006-12-11 02:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls probably don't believe you coz you're a man!! lol - just kidding!
but i've known this myself, the better looking the bloke, the more promiscuous they are, generally. as they have women wanting them all the time it's hard for the current girlfriend not to get jealous. however there is hope for you. my boyfriend is extremely good looking and he was single when i got together with him and he's stayed faithful - god bless! it just makes me feel proud.
:D
Good look - there are some "open" minded women out there!
2006-12-11 02:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may find some of the best things when you're not looking for them.
If you let it go, and you're more carefree subconsciously; then I would have to bet you'd have better chances of finding someone decent, then over-thinking the women who are untrusting.
2006-12-11 02:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls are weary of a god looging single guy. I think it is because of their own insecurity. All you can do is just be yourself and someone one day will be confidant enough to date you and trust you are not a player. Good luck!
2006-12-11 02:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be how you say it or you might not be convincing enough. If girls continue not to believe you then keep looking. You will find that girl that will believe and hopefully she will see the true side of you and not dwell on their insecurity.
2006-12-11 02:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a 13 12 months old dude. -perhaps infant is relating you, ask him out in case you want him.. If he likes somebody else at the same time let him go. there is probable extra fish out contained in the sea
2016-11-25 20:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault, women do it too. As a woman, we are just so used to being lied to. I guess we think ever good looking man should have already been taken.
2006-12-11 02:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋