I've been getting these emails from these two girls whom claim that they was dating my b/f until they found out that he was dating more than just them. Should I even beleive them? Should I listen? Should I worry about it? I don't know what to do? I love him so much, but I don't know if they have any truth in what they say? Also I haven't been able to get ahold of him because he lost his job and is going threw tough times trying to find a place to stay and everything. What do you think?
2006-12-11 02:16:31 · 5 answers · asked by blacknessforeverandever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long has it been since you talked to him....A womens gut feeling is 99% right, so if you have been feeling like he's been dating other women he probably is. And now that shits hit the fan and he is nowhere to be found its probably true..
2006-12-11 02:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need more information--try responding to the girl's e-mails and see if you can find out when and where he is seeing someone else. If you see it with your own eyes it may be enough to wake you up. I wonder how they obtained your e-mail address. I'd listen for now....but not necessarily reach any definite conclusions. But if you were under the impression your relationship was exclusive, you'd want to know otherwise even if it is painful. It would be better to find out this information sooner than later. If you're not able to determine whether they're telling the truth, you can find out from him what their motive would be for lying. And the fact that this guy hasn't been in touch lately would raise my suspicions as well. Is he stable enough to be your boyfriend? Think more about the baggage this guy may be carrying before you invest more in the relationship. Good Luck
2006-12-11 02:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, if he is the guy who he should be, he will be patient with you, regardless of what his other personal trials are at the moment. Just remind him you want to support him in the appropriate way, meaning that you want to help him if he wants you to, but if he is cheating, then you need to move on and those silly other girls can be there for him. It is sad to see that we, as women, have not been encouraged to build one another up, instead we see "catfights" being glorified and stuff. Just remember if he was involved with these girls, it doesnt mean there is anything wrong with you. It's just that you were unfortunate to have been dealing with immature people who are obviously below your caliber of person. Chin up, back straight, now gooooooooo!
2006-12-11 02:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him.... (especially if you are talking about the 46year old guy in your last question!!) i know its hard when going through rough times, but he should still have the respect to call his girlfriend. no offense but he sounds like a loser to me. can't keep a job, doesn't have a place to stay, and can't call his girlfriend.
dump him, he's not worth it. Trust me I've been there....
good luck
2006-12-11 02:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid the guy he is not worth a dime unreliable guy
2006-12-11 02:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋