I have been with my man for a year and a half, But he doesn't want to perform oral on me and he knows how i like it, i try not giving him oral but i like to do it. He keeps saying blood comesout of there, he doesn't want to try new things. Our sex is awesome but the foreplay needs ALOT of work. I bought games, toys everything, we spoke about it over 10 times. But he is awesome, he spoils me gives me anything i want. Hes supportive, caring evrything. But i only feel like this sometimes, probably once a month so what should i do?
2006-12-11 01:55:41 · 7 answers · asked by sexysash69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he dosnt like to perform oral on you then you have to accept that. as long as he is good to you thats all that should matter. i was with my ex bf for 4 yrs and the first time we were intimate i asked him not to ejeculate in my mouth because i didnt like it. he didnt, and he never in 4 yrs even botherd to ask me if i would. he remembered that i didnt like it and never bought it up or complained about it. he respected that i didnt like it and the subjet just never came up again. if a guy didnt want to go down on me then i wouldnt mind, there are plenty of other ways to get to the big O ohh ohhhh
2006-12-11 02:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by *juicyjellybean* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is compromise. Just say to your boyfriend its not like you want him to do it every night, may be try to arrange it once a month to start with, buy some nice flavoured lubricants and have a few drinks to get in the mood. But also remember if one of you isn't comfortable then its not going to work as you cant force someone into doing things. You could both try doing something new together then you both know how it feels. Otherwise it might just be best to leave that part of the relationship and work on something else.
2006-12-11 10:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't give you what you need...then you're eventually going to go find it somewhere else. I absolutely love performing oral on girls...I'm rather talented at it. I prefer it to recieving oral from them.
On the other hand, there were one or two girls who I absolutely couldn't do it to because they didn't take care of themselves down there. I recommend a good shave, healthy diet, and those scented wet wipes from playtex. It could make a difference.
The blood might be a religous issue with him, in that case you'll have to decide what's more important...a caring guy or sexual satisfaction.
Good luck!
2006-12-11 10:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Italian_Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See I am like that I like to do new things to but if you don't get it from him it is going to get old and you going to get some where esle so if you can work around it that would be good because if you love him and the relationship is going how you want a relationship to go then leave it along and just havehim to do other things beside oral sex.Let him go to the sex shop with you and yal pick out something togather and see how that go for a moment
2006-12-11 10:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by WAZUP 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are some guys that just do like doing it for some strange reason. Just like there is women that will not do it on a man. I am not sure how you can get him to like it maybe try some some flavored oil or something. It is hard for me to understand why guy do not like doing it to me that is my favorite thing to do.
2006-12-11 10:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he meets all your needs except that one, then just get over it and learn to live without it!! Geez, it's not the end of the world.
2006-12-11 09:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you don't need oral...get over it!
2006-12-11 10:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Trevor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋