my ex is asking about me?

Question

my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 4 weeks ago we ended well she is dealing with anarexica,deppressen thing is she keeps talking to my friends and family trying to find out what i am up to why would she, when she broke up with me and didn,t want me anymore i am moving on i do love her still that will not change but thing is when we spilt she was not sure about things and will not talk about it to me...And one of her friends said that it's weird that i am o.k and moving on with my life after breaking up but she is worse upset all the time i don't get it do you see my problem i would love to get back together but to take things slow she has problems but i have been told not to be in a relationship with her but i love her and want to be there for her what to do i can't talk to her or her mum or friends because she has told me not to after the first week so any help would be great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I think since she is having depressed and dealing with anerexica she is not sure what she wants. I think she needs to get herself back on her feet and deal with the issues that she has at the moment rather than engaging into a relationship. Since she has been asking around for you it is clearly that she didn't want to break up with you in the first place and like I said maybe confused maybe you should tell one of your friends to tell her next time she asks about you to tell her that you are doing ok and that you love her and that you are worried about her that she should get some help with things that are happening to her. I dont think you should get back with her but sure show some support and help her get through things and after this maybe you guys can start a relationship or maybe remain friends.

Good Luck

Answer 2

Here's the low-down about girls breaking up with their men. Sometimes you let go of someone you love intensely because he's not giving you enough attention or support. The fact that she's asking about you is a dead giveaway that she still loves you. You belong together, just sort out the communication problems that are apparent in your relationship.

Answer 3

I don't think she has much love to offer to you if she doesn't have enough to love herself. I once played middle man to a girl who was bipolar. After one of our breakups...during one of her mood swings...her parents (who loved me)...kept telling her that I was good to her and that she should reconsider.

She saw that as her stepmom "taking sides against her" and she didn't talk to her for almost two years. I know this because she took ME back before I convinced her to talk to her mom again. So, you might now want to put her parents between you two.

If you really want this girl...consider going to counseling with her. Even if you don't need it...the fact that you are there for her and with her shows you care. Good luck!