I like this boy in school. A year back this ***** named Shatira stole this boy I liked named Bj and this year she is tring to take this boy I like now and I'llbe damned if i let her take a nother one. I really like him and I want to talk to him but I dont know what to do about Shatira. Cuz I promised myself that I would never fight over a boy but I dont want to let her get away with again. What should I do ? I also dont want to throw my self at him and seem to him desperate .Help please
2006-12-11 01:49:38 · 13 answers · asked by Bree Lynne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You act like these boys are pieces of candy that just sit there waiting for some girl to come along and scoop them up against their will. Women can't "take" boys, my dear. Did it occur to you that the boy considered both options and decided that Shatira was the better deal? Get over yourself.
2006-12-11 01:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER fight for a guy. If a woman can turn his head, she deserves him, not you. Jealousy is overplayed. When you're with the right one, NO woman could take him from you. He goes on free will and if he's right for you, nothing will change that and especially not another woman. If she, or anyone else, takes a man from you, please try to understand that you were done a HUGE favor by her. He's not worth the fight!! NO MAN IS!!!!
2006-12-11 09:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a very interesting question, a question that has vexed the minds of intellectuals for centuries. there is no easy answer to the question of how soon you should make the initial approach. recent surveys carried out at oxford university in england suggest that if you aim to get him too early you will fail. wait too long and that ***** shatira will get him. i suggest you just tell him you like him and ask him if he wants it.
2006-12-11 09:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you've just got to wait things out, you never know. Something might happen that you'd never expect. If the guy likes you he will tell that girl to get lost. You can't make someone like you, if they don't.
2006-12-11 09:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by mattyboycommy2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does Shatira know that you like him anyway? If you like him you need to get to know him better to find out if he is worth your time too. How are you gonna do that? How long are you gonna wait? How bad to you want his friendship? Good luck!
2006-12-11 09:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay here da thing go up to him an ask him do he like u. But u need to tell her dat is ur man an tell her to back off but if u like him take him back. do he kno u like him if he do just ask him do he want to go wit u
2006-12-11 09:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by ScoprionKing07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can take someone away from you then you never had them in the first place! Let the ho have your sloppy seconds, who cares!!
2006-12-11 09:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by soultrip29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the scource of the problem is that you liked a guy named BJ. pretty lame name.
2006-12-11 09:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by iron chef bryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat her A** i know you said that you never wanted to fight over a boy ..but so what..i say beat her A**
2006-12-11 09:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a move on him befor she do
2006-12-11 09:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by jd_knighten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋