We are blessed with a boy and girl already...
2006-12-11 01:46:20 · 14 answers · asked by scann 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Have a date night. Get a sitter for the kids, and talk with each other honestly. Do you both want another baby? Can you afford another baby? Can you deal with being outnumbered in the house? They are serious questions, but you two are the only ones who can answer them. Other people will talk money, population control, sibling rivalry, childcare, and all sorts of other issues, but what really matters is your own answers. Look this decision square in the face and make a decision together. You'll do the right thing because you're both in it together. Good luck--
2006-12-11 04:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why or why not? Finances? Birthing problems? Not handling parenting well? Having a third child has to do with do you want 3 children or 4 children or more. It is only a matter of should if the answers to the questions above are yes. Even then it should not be a decision maker. We had three children and our finances were not good but we knew we wanted a fourth child. You make do with what you have and there is always enough love to go around.
2006-12-11 01:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not? If God blesses you again with another that would be awsome. You won't conceive if he doesn't allow you to anyway. You will be surprised at how easily you can love another and how easily the new child will fit into your life at this point. After the first two it is easier.
Good luck
2006-12-11 01:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by suzyQ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 children when it was just 2 of them things were really easy, I could go shopping, out to eat, anything but after I had my 3 I might as well have 10 kids because it seem really hard for me to go anywhere with them all.
2006-12-11 02:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by rebecca v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really is something that you and your wife should discuss. If you can handle a third child financially then go for it.
2006-12-11 02:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! If you both feel like you want another baby and are finanically and physically stable for a new little one why not!? Babies are awesome miracles!Be proud that you can make babies whenever you want! Some people cant make babies at all! lol. Good luck!
2006-12-11 03:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by yahoocraze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us? The two of you can figure out if you want another child and can resonably care for all of them. Gender alone shouldn't be the deciding factor.
2006-12-11 01:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by tabithap 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just depends on if you can handle it...Money wise, mentally. Just depends on your situation. Does now seem like a good time. Or are you guys happy with the two you have?
2006-12-11 01:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you and your wife, as long as you are sure you can take care of another child, sure go for it
2006-12-11 01:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Big Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready for it,let it happen!You already have two , whats one more? You can handle it ,just take it as it comes.That's what we do. Its worth it .You never run out of love for them.
2006-12-11 01:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by patty m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋