Girls are soo strange. Look I jump out of airplanes for a living. I'm in the military. I have money. I am independent. I believe I am smart, good looking. But when girls look at me they look at me like if I was stupid or something. Any advice???
2006-12-11 01:19:22 · 15 answers · asked by gvjvjhv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may be the uniform. What is the attitude, though?
2006-12-11 01:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be blunt: You must be giving off a stupid aura.
Even truly dumb men and losers can get a girl, so if you're not stupid, you have a good income and are reasonably attractive, you should have no problem getting a girl. If all the girls look at you this way, then you are doing something wrong. This is not their problem, this is yours.
Seriously, if you have this much going for you, you must be approaching or dealing with women in a way that is a turn off. The next time a woman turns you down, ask her to tell you what you're doing wrong. Or ask a friend to give you a critque.
2006-12-11 09:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've known some very good-looking, smart, courageous, wealthy military guys who have had one huge problem -- their ego.
If you are still in the military, some women may be turned away by that, knowing that they would not want a long-distance relationship. I don't want to promote any stereotypes either, but many people do view military guys as men who are likely to cheat on their s/o while she is not around. (Hey, it happened to me!)
2006-12-11 09:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur looking in the wrong place for gurls hunny. Find you one that can relate to you. Maybe a military woman. You are right us gurls are strange. Me persanaliy i love a man in uniform and i am going into the military myself. Just find you someone who will apreciate what you do. Your true love will find you one day.
2006-12-11 09:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by country chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ,Thank you for your service and for protecting us. You my friend are an upstanding young man. You will find someone someday. If she left you it wasn't right. I believe everything happens for a reason. At some point a girl will come along and knock you off your feet, but a few game players may come before you meet her. You will be o.k. God bless you!!
2006-12-11 09:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just hanging around the wrong girls for you. Try other places and don't listen to the dude telling you to wear cool clothes etc.. that's bollocks. If you are all you say you are, you will find someone who digs you.
btw.. i don't mind being called a chick at all. I call chicks chicks and i'm one
2006-12-11 09:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to understand women. Guys will never get this right. Women are the most complex creatures on the planet.
2006-12-11 09:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by robdent31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one piece of advice: stop calling them "chicks."
If you can learn to understand why that's a problem, everything else will fall into place.
2006-12-11 09:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen darlin don't stress about it. You have to relax and be more easygoing. One day you will meet a good woman, if you just be yourself, and things will click. Take your time. There's no rush ok and I wish you goodluck. Thanks for everything you are doing for us all. The Free world appreciates it more than you know.
2006-12-11 09:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by bikerchick_642000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe if you relax and try to get to know them better, they'll give you a chance.
2006-12-11 09:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋