i have a gf who i thought i was breaking up with. she was acting very moody and angry all the time and it was depressing me. then i met another girl who was really smart and touched something deep inside me, making me want to reconnect to people. i wrote her a poem and sent it to her as a secret admirer, i had no intention to try to hook up with her, but then we began to talk and i felt creepy so i told her. we talked about maybe being more than friends but decided to be just friends. my gf seems a lot better, i failed in understanding that she was depressed and on bad medicine. but i see a pattern with us of great high and horrible lows. i told her everything from my perspective that happened and she said she still wanted to work on stuff. however, i am not sure if there are rumors of something else happening going around. i also still have feelings for the other girl and am trying to get over them.
2006-12-11 01:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds bi-polar. Desote your feelings for her, is this the life you want to live?
2006-12-11 01:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to make a decision who you want to be with and then go from there. You can't pursue anyone till you know what you want. Get a piece of paper and write down all of the pros and cons to both girl and then try to figure out whom you would like to be with. Good for you that you were honest but not so good on the part where you wrote her a poem. That kind of got you in this mess in the first place.
2006-12-11 09:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One realationship at a time, buddy.
Seriously, put the new girl out of the picture and decide whether or not you want to work it out with the current girlfriend. Don't let the possibility of something with someone else influence your decision.
THEN if you've decided to move on, spend some time getting to know the new girl and see if she is someone that you would like to be with long-term.
2006-12-11 09:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,i think that u was attracted to that girl as she was only having things not in yr gf ( that time) , but if yr gf was moody and depressed that's why yr relation was down it is not good to leave her in her hard times , just think if u had a bad time abd u r the one who was depressed and nervous ,the only one u'll wish to be with u ids her even if u were not good with her but u still want her beside u , now think the same for her and dont run for another girl just coz yr gf wasnt good this is not fair .
2006-12-11 09:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by HoBoS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an attitude. And my question is- why ask these people anyway, a lot of them are 7 year olds that know how to type.
2006-12-11 09:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, whichever way you go, you gotta pick one or the other. Ain't fair to either of them to play on both sides of the ball.
2006-12-11 09:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good guy. Pick one.
2006-12-11 09:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the questions is do you knwo why you wan to be with this girl
2006-12-11 09:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋