What should I do if I'm Talking to a guy that dosen't really want anyone one to know that we're going out!! And if smeone asks him he denies it but he says its because people are too nosey and they should mind their business... Should i believe him?...
2006-12-11 00:37:33 · 14 answers · asked by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's married.
2006-12-11 00:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't believe him! Ask yourself this question if you were doing it to him how would he really react? He's hiding something, either he's seeing someone other than you or you're just the fill-in until he finds someone else that he really wants to be with. You should cut your losses, don't you feel you deserve better than what he's giving you? Do you feel he's disrespecting you? He's not willing to claim you in public but he is behind closed doors. Girl, let that reject go and get you someone that wants to and will love and respect you. Trust me there's a better guy out there for you. Get rid of that jackass so you an get you a real man.
2006-12-11 08:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends a little bit on both of your socioeconomic status. If you are both on the same playing field as far as being of similar culture, class, and racial background then you may want to start looking elsewhere. Other times some guys say that they don't like other people in their business but in reality they feel insecure about crossing those divides I just mentioned above. Of course the most probably answer is that he feels ashamed of having you for a girlfriend, which is reason enough to get rid of him and find some guy who has the self confidence not to worry about what others think.
2006-12-11 08:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What a jerk.
Sorry, but if I guy refuses to admit that you are together, that's not a good sign. He's either hiding something from you, from someone else, or is just a player who doesn't want to be "tied down."
2006-12-11 08:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is hiding something. If you are going out with someone and care about them, the last thing you want to do is hide it! Why is he worried about other people? Do you really want to be going out with someone like that? I think you need to find someone else who isn't ashamed to show that he cares for you.
2006-12-11 08:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with a guy who doesn't want to be with you enough to let others know it? He's keeping his options open. Quite possibly he's interested in someone else and he's just stringing you along in the meantime. You deserve a guy who appreciates you and who's proud to be seen with you. If he tries to keep it a secret, he's using you. Period.
2006-12-11 08:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by adeleb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really! if he denies that you guys are going out, then he is hiding something. Confront him on this issue and get the truth!
Good Luck!
2006-12-11 08:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Doc Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt believe him! sounds like he is ashamed! I have never heard of someone denying the fact that they are with someone. I can understand that people are nosy, because they are! But you still dont act like you not with someone that you really are!!!
2006-12-11 08:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops! what kinda guy is that? A coward...? n yes he's definitely hiding something.You just have to keep a light relationship with him.know what I mean..?
2006-12-11 08:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never good when only one party wants to hide a relationship.
2006-12-11 08:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by texas_tree1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wacth him because its something bad or he donesn't want people to no he likes you you call the shoots and make sure he nos you do
2006-12-11 08:41:01 · answer #11 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋