I have a boyfriend but recently I managed to get in touch with an old friend who was my crush 8 years ago. He requested to meet up just for dinner but i'm not sure if i should go. If i do, would i be unfaithful to my boyfriend? Should I meet him??
2006-12-11 00:32:52 · 7 answers · asked by Joeann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend secretly went out with a girl whom he used to like. How does that feel?
2006-12-11 01:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important to have a set definition of cheating. If you keep at contact of body fluids then you'll be fine. If you define it as cheating in your heart then you won't be fine. Realistically speaking most people cheat in their hearts and that's not cheating by any formal standard. You can associate with guys not your boyfriend (and husband in the future) without any criticisms from your guy. If he complains and makes comments then he's obviously insecure and thinks ill of you as having loose morals and no loyalty to him. Definitely meet the guy and you can also flirt a little bit, but not too much, and mention your boyfriend when you talk about what you've been up to lately in a casual way.
2006-12-11 08:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you consider that cheating if he did that to you?
Your taking the risk of messing up the relationship you already have. If you really love the guy you are with now. You wouldn't do anything to hurt him. Leave the past in the past and enjoy the person you have. Oh yeah never get tired of doing the right thing!
2006-12-11 08:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend dont go...Or take you, your boyfriend to meet this guy as friends just for dinner....
2006-12-11 08:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can be honest with your boyfriend and tell him about your "crush"... Then, you never know, you might get the chance to sort out a 3some... :D
2006-12-11 08:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is better that you bring your bf along to prevent any embrassment moment that may occurred
2006-12-11 09:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a sIut, so why not?
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2006-12-11 08:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋