here is the problem me and my boyfriend live quite far from each other and just latley i have been finding myself not trusting him for certain reasons. the thing is i decided to send him a txt of one of my friends phone pretending to be a girl. he did txt back but only to ask who i was he called a few times but i did not answer it. any way i did not txt him back and he stoped calling it and i forgot all about it. but the other night i asked to use my friends phone to call him and when i did he was like oh so it was you and now he wont answer his phone to me.what should i do?
2006-12-11 00:08:16 · 19 answers · asked by smith15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a new boyfriend, since you don't trust this one.
I hope he found a new girlfriend.
2006-12-11 00:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what to do:
1. Apologise to him.
2. Grow up.
3. Break up with him.
4. Find someone you can trust.
5. Try entrapment on them instead.
I know if my partner tried this little stunt on me, I wouldn't talk to them either. There is a serious lack of trust here which seems to be coming from you - your relationship is doomed!
2006-12-11 00:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by blueeyedboy3004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh! you got sussed. tho the point is if it was so long ago that you forgot it, he obviously still has the number in his phone. does he know you had a stage of not trusting him? all you can really do is let him calm down, nothing else you can do really since you cant go round. be prepared tho, you may of lost him over this. you could always try the i was trying to wind you up story to try and cover ya tracks but to be honest, if you dont trust him what are you doing with him?
2006-12-11 00:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder he isn't talking to you, I would of felt so hurt that I would of broke up with you on the spot. You have done this to yourself and if he was doing something, you could atleast be upfront with him. How you went about it was very childish. I would imagine he thinks the same. I would just talk to him and explain why you did it. See him face to face though. Good Luck with getting back closer.
2006-12-11 00:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by phobzy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were trying to set him up! Sounds like he "passed" your test but how immature and insecure of you. He deserves an apology and an explanation and you need to accept that this shenanigan may have changed his feeling for YOU. There is an old saying, "Don't borrow trouble..."
2006-12-11 00:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is apologise for doing what you did...explain that you were feeling insecure and just wanted to see how he'd react to the messages. Write him a letter if he won't talk
Good luck
2006-12-11 00:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by punkrawkprincess81 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he should leave you and find someone more rational, less jealous and crazy.
Give me his number and I'll tell him. The last thing he needs is some whacked out psycho playing mind games with him.
2006-12-11 00:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by savs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The trust has gone. You need to move on and carry on with your life.
2006-12-11 00:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up
2006-12-11 00:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by discmiss1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you screwed up the relationship with your jealousy and insecurity... That'll teach you to stop being so stupid... Hope you are happy now...
2006-12-11 00:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋