So, im in love with my best friend. Problem is, she's older than me and she already sorta has a guy. Sorta. They're not really together yet, but its pretty much there.. We've been friends for kind of a long time, its just that i never got the guts to tell her how i really felt about her. I've seen her go through a couple of relationships and gave advice(I even defended the guy!) anyway, i just wanted her to be happy.. So what do i do?!?!
2006-12-11 00:03:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let her know your feelings
2006-12-11 00:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem 2, I am in love with this guy I've known for a while but he is in a relationship, personally I wouldn't tell him but If u really want this girl then I think u should tell her, She might feel the same way!
2006-12-11 00:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cookiesandmilk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her ASAP. You could lose her to yet another guy if you wait.
What in the world do you have to lose and why in the world would you wait?? If she doesn't feel the same way about you, you will have an answer instead of wondering. Also you won't lose her friendship. Trust me. I speak from experience.
Best of luck.
2006-12-11 00:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, maybe she feels the same about you but with you not making a move and her seeing others she thinks you don't feel the same....life is short and usually too many ppl miss out on 'paradise' because they are too fearful or assume something that isn't true, don't miss out on what could be the most important thing in your life....bottom line maybe the person she's been searching for all along is you..
2006-12-11 00:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincerity is vital in any relationship.You would've told her how you felt about her long before now.Anyway, since the feeling is still there just let her know and manage whatever response she gives maturely.Even if she say 'no' you've cleared your heart. Remember,don't say what you don't mean and mean what you say...yes,it's better than dying in silence.
2006-12-11 00:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by gabula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that you love her, that you have loved her a long time, but that you wanted her to be happy and that you did not have the guts to tell her. Just be open to her, like you are open to us.
I hope this will help you.
Good luck.
2006-12-11 00:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't in a relationship then tell her...I married my best friend, watched him go through 2 ex fiance's and being his friend, he called me and told me all the Gorey details...So i guess you could say i know more about him then i should...We are still best friend and married...It works...
2006-12-11 00:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her bro, i've been in the situation and in three months i'm marrying her!, it took me 5 years, save yourself the stress and anguish and tell her, if its not gonna happen its better to know now than waste years of your life wondering.
2006-12-11 00:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by grinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your feeling for her and see what is her reaction then you will decide what to do next.
2006-12-11 00:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart, do what you think is right. if you want to tell her then tell her if you'd rather not then don't, just pick one or the other
2006-12-11 00:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Acire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see dude if she is ur best friend shell understand u man
2006-12-11 00:05:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋