I was going out with someone recently who was big into blood tests to prove fidelity ..didnt work out ..he contacted me to say he was ill with a disease Herpes and said I gave it to him I know I didnt but I wondered if he had it maybe he gave it to me ..so I got tested ..I am fine now ..3 months down the road he says it was a lie so I would get a test to prove I had nothing ...I dont know what is the truth ...and he wonders why I am mad at him...he says he did it so I would prove I love him by getting a test done ..is he mad ...what do I need to do ..he needs help
2006-12-10 23:52:25 · 7 answers · asked by pineforestkim 3 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Infectious Diseases
I hope it is over between you two because he is bad news. He is the controlling type and he is paranoid. Steer clear he is a lunatic.
2006-12-11 00:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so right he does need help. I wouldn't worry if he was mad at you . He should of came out and trusted you and asked you to get a test and explained how it would benefit the both of you and not trick you. That was a very low down and if I were you I would let him know that if you stay together that it is going to take a lot to gain his trust again. If you plan on staying with him he needs to get to the bottom of why he feels the need to have blood work done constantly . I think that he needs to speak to a Physiologist. How does he keep getting the orders to even get the blood draws. A Dr. has to right out the script for him to even have it done? If you truly love him then get him help and if not then just move on and still let him know that he needs help. Good luck.
2006-12-11 00:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by ws_422 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was a jerk for lying about having the herpes. imagine he did have the virus u would of been exposed. he taught u a very important lesson here. always protect yourself. this is your life here. never take anyone's word that they are clean, always use condoms.
it is a responsible thing to do to get tested for std's. btw get rid of your boyfriend, lying isn't cool.
2006-12-11 00:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is important. There must be truth to have trust.
One should not spend much time with people that lie.
To lie is to not be trusted.
This is a person who you can not have a full trust in.
Move on.
2006-12-11 00:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Testing is a great idea , lying to someone isn't . Dump the chump , he sounds like hes very insecure .
2006-12-11 00:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ray H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust this man, he is sick is his mind. You could proove for him this time with blood test, while you can't proove him always! Hope U understand what I mean, he is gonna give U hard time. Good luck
2006-12-11 00:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him and move on.
2006-12-10 23:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by barb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋