i'm not lesbian but it seems that most girls love my company .. and i even had some of their boyfriends are angry at me since most of the time the girls will leave the bf just to go out with me .. sometimes i feel that i'm the third party in their relationship...i do feel guilty and tried to avoid the girls but they will be the ones calling me .. and i even know some of their relationship broke because of me.. mind u we are not young anymore ..
i donoe if anyone experience this..
2006-12-10 23:47:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha okay.... maybe you're just a really good friend to them. Don't avoid your friends, just tell them you don't want to get in the middle of their relationships.
2006-12-10 23:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by sarahbabe315 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is confussing because since you are not a lesbian then the other girl's seem to be.
And no not feel Guilty for something you did not do!
Yes, you are not young as once. Just being open will help more tell your friends that hanging out so much will just be very uncomfortable for you and for they boyfriend.
and if boys are runnig around.
Doesn't kill to have them run after you!...
;-)
2006-12-11 07:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by alice_nobleandkind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...I see your going through a confussing situation and this issue always has a reason.
Your not a lesbian just because your friends are hanging around with you more than there boyfriends, they are hanging around you because you can relate to them, understand them and listen to what they have to say...In other words this means your a real, true friend and thats what all girls need in there lives...That what is missing...a True Friend to count on... not to have boyfriends and make-out with and try to get friendship out of them too.
I'm going through the same situation just like you...
I'm 15teen years old and My best friend is 17teen and she talks 2 me more than her boyfriend and trusted me with all her secrets and i do the same with her but in young girls lives they need a girl to talk to because a guy will never understand there problems or share there thoughts without getting in an fight.
Just because your Great to talk to doesn't mean your Lesbian and i know how it feels when a guy hates you just because his girlfriend is more open to you than him.
The situation that he is going through is jealousy and not use to having a girlfriend that is not always around but it's not your fault your outspoken and have a great personality...in concluation to this she has the chosse to speak 2 who she likes.
Women don't take you attractive but understanding and caring but Men don't know how to talk or relate to a women in ur standards thats all...ur like very women they know.
Good luck bye
Smiles
2006-12-11 08:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Unknown_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋