Will it(getting chubbier) be bothering you?
So you want her/him to do work out?
It can be interesting question. ;)
2006-12-10 23:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No my ex was like, 5'9, 130 lbs. so I would have been thrilled if he put on some weight.
I wouldn't say it to my significant other because I wouldn't want it said to me by them. It would make me feel like I'm not pretty enough, etc. and I'd be even more insecure about my weight than I already am. However if I made a comment about my putting on weight and they agreed, it wouldn't be bad, and it would be even better if they were willing to be supportive, go to the gym with me, etc.
2006-12-11 02:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what is good for you you won't mention a word. If it is really an issue, suggest dates that involve a little more activity, Join an inter mural league together, or when you eat out chose restaurants known for healthier fare.
The worst thing you can do is negatively comment on your partners appearance, it make you look incredibly superficial and will hurt the other ones feelings.
2006-12-11 01:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'd say that. I'd be more inclined to incorporate more physical activities that you can both do together.
I'd say something like "Hey wouldn't it be nice to go for a bike ride today?" and just go! Or a nice walk together 3 or 4 times a week.
If you live together, buy healthier snacks like rice crackers and low fat dip or salsa instead of potato chips. Cook meals together (that are healthy and tasty) and shop for the ingredients together can also be fun.
If you do really want to say something, just include that you love them and you are concerned for their health and give heaps of encouragement!!!!
2006-12-11 00:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by sydney77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't bother me unless it was becoming a serious problem, like a health-related problem.
So what if they gain a few extra pounds? Then they'll be a better cuddle.
I wouldn't tell them to work out even if it was a serious problem. I would tell them to eat a little healthier. Working out alone doesn't always work.
2006-12-10 23:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If ya'll chose each other,it shouldnt really matter but personally I feel its only right to be concerned about your mate and work out with them if you feel they need it.If time isnt on your side,if you live punching the clock then find a way of not hurting their feelings coz thats one of the areas where people take things personally.
2006-12-10 23:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by Blackfeet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the reason the gf/bf gained weight. I would offer to go to the gym with him/her if they desired.
2006-12-11 01:36:34 · answer #6 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...for sure! it truly is somewhat shallow. you need to love the guy you're with for who they're and in no way their length. once you need to reassess your relationship at the same time as the different efficient aspects weight than is it somewhat love contained in the first position?
2016-11-25 20:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I wouldn't mind.
Its their body, I'm not goin to tell them what to do with it. If their proud with what they got then it isn't a problem.
However, if its a serious health risk, I'd mention it, and give my support, etc.
But at the end of the day its up to them, after all its thier life.
I'd just remind them I care.
2006-12-11 00:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by monkey with a crayon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slimmer is better, but sometimes the extra weight can go into the right places on a woman!
What about you? What's your opinion? ;)
2006-12-12 06:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Definitely not. But I would start working out myself and cooking healthier and encourage him to join me.
2006-12-11 00:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by jenniferaboston 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋