Many girls these days are shallow, they go for looks and dont get to know the not so goodlooking guys..what if that guy had a good heart,personality,funny, treated you how you wanted to be treated..but you wouldnt know that because you never give them a chance because of their looks..
2006-12-10 23:39:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I said most girls not all..i know there are non shallow girls out there
2006-12-11 00:10:09 · update #1
How old are you? If you're young, hang in there! Sometimes girls take awhile to come around and go after the true "gem" of a man. (To get the 'bad boy syndrome' out of their system) If you are an adult, are you truly showing the girl(s) you're interested in that you're interested? Or are you being more of a "friend?" Just take a look around...there are lots of gorgeous women dating/marrying average-looking men. Exude confidence, a great sense of humour and a dash of sensitivity and some lucky gal will soon snatch you up!
2006-12-10 23:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by tdmatte 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Going for looks is not shallow, you have to have an attraction physically. But staying for looks after getting to know the person is shallow. If you are not the most attractive person, dress well, get a great haircut, and get some style to you. Then you may attract more women. Once they are initially attracted to you, they will get to know what kind of person you are and will fall in love with you.
2006-12-10 23:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIrls may be shallow, but women aren't. Some of us even like the ones that arent the "pretty boy" type....dont put us (females) all in a catagory of being shallow.....and dont be so hard on urself! Smile!
2006-12-10 23:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The door swings both ways hun! There are just as many guys if not more that won't even give a woman a second look if she isn't skinny and/or well endowed! I mean would you date a girl with some extra pounds on her? or would you pass her over for something more appealing?
2006-12-10 23:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by mistress_lilas 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me!! I wouldn't call myself shallow. My guy is not amazingly hott, but he has an amazing personality. I don't necessarily go for a**holes just because of their looks. So why would you even say that when it's not true for all girls??
Get. A. Life.
2006-12-10 23:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by sarahbabe315 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true a lot of relationships start out based on looks, but guys do this aswell not just girls. Looks arnt the most important thing, but initially its what attracts you to someone, besides theres always the danger that if you go out with someone you arnt attracted to then you'll end up wanting someone else and hurting them, no matter how nice they are.
2006-12-10 23:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old r u ? if ur young dont worry....ummmmm...the only thing i can say is looks is what makes u turn ya head twice..i mean say if it waz this cute skinny gurl and then a not so fat gurl but ummm.. she had a couple of lb's on u men would go for the women that has good shape..so not only women r shallow men r toooo....
2006-12-11 00:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Video Phone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time enough for the nice guys when it comes time to settle down and breed.
While we're hot and fun that's who we want to be with.
And definitely not interesting to be with people who complain about not getting any attention.
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2006-12-10 23:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by jan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why 'not so good looking guys' go for very good looking girls?
who is shallow here?
2006-12-10 23:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by KT Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to believe women are not breaking down your door. Somebody like you with all your worldly insights.
and for the record, males are in no way concerned with looks...
Hope this helps.
2006-12-10 23:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by detroit al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋