i met 3 guys, A,B and C 5 months back, and since then we've been hanging out almost every night in this shop.. we chat, have drinks and just joke around. A, B, C have been friends since college, but they seldom talk about they're love life. only when they have problems, they tend to let it out. when i first joined in, A kept flirting, but i made it obvius that i didnt want it. he left me alone. i had a crush on B, however, but he had a gf...then he broke up, and things were getting on great with him. we made out and all, but he then told me he's in a messed up situation and all we've done meant nothing to him at all. being disappointed, i confronted C.. he was there for me all the while, now that i've accepted the fact, C seems to be flirting and hinting very obviously... what am i to do?? All three of them dont know the whole picture, but i still hope B will be mine, and A and C to be my good buddies.
2006-12-10 23:22:53 · 10 answers · asked by pinkdoughnuts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing is, i dont want any of them to be more than friends to me. im afraid that if things wont work out, the circle of friends would break...since we cant do things as usual.. i am just *hoping* for B.. but i know he'll use me more..how am i to tell them off that i dont want that kinda relationship with them?
2006-12-11 00:54:29 · update #1
Get out of this circle of "buddies". They will use you until they find something better to do with their time. You are just putting yourself down. In time you will find the right person for you. In the meantime, have some self respect.
2006-12-10 23:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If C was the only one for you, and he really cared for you, then I think that you should give it a try with him. You'll never know until you try. As for B he made it clear to you, that you mean nothing more to him than just friends. So as I said, if I were you I will start dating C and in a short period of time you don't feel any changes for him then you should tell him the truth. Remember the truth sometimes hurt and it's not an easy way either but truth means honesty and honesty is one of the best things that a person can have in his character.
2006-12-10 23:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my area i love that. Makes issues a lot a lot less annoying. somewhat, adult males who attempt to pretend that they don't look to be fascinated, turn me off on the instantaneous. it truly is nevertheless enormously obtrusive at the same time as they're, yet who needs cowards? What i'd do: if we were associates, co-workers and so on, so as that we ought to be certain one yet another usually, then i'd inform you precisely what my intentions are. Honesty is the purely right coverage. yet, if we met by coincidence and there replaced into no possibility that we meet lower back, then i does no longer inform you that i don't like you. i'd tease you, and flirt with you, purely to keep you on the hook :) If I loved you, even with the reality that, i'd inform you.
2016-11-25 20:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you *done meant nothing* to any of them. Try X, Y, and Z. Lay off the F for a while and don't give up the P... Don't become a W or a B. Stay away from J's. At all cost avoid the I's. N you'll soon C that U, R, O, K.
2006-12-10 23:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be adults.. Plan a gangbang or somthing, nothing crazy, maybe even one at a time. If the sex dosen't intrest you with one or 2 just let them know.. But, Hey, your young, have a ball. I remember Jennie, real cute and one of the guy type girls. We sat around, made some rules, treated her with the MOST RESPECT and she let us have a ball, allthough I think she liked it more. There were a few more adventures with me a two of her friends... Yeah it was great, but it is hard to stay hard for 3 hot girls. I swear I riped the back of my toung from licking and sucking so much...
2006-12-10 23:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off b seems like a total tool so just try to forget him because he told you that it meant nothing. But honestly, the fact that you did that with him made your value go down by alot so he probably just thought of you as a joke. If anything id say c actually cares about you. You dont have to like but seeing if you could like him wouldnt hurt. That friend circle is doomed..
2015-07-07 01:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are worth more than B. dont fall for him just because you have a crush on him. you should go out with people who you like in personalitly as well as looks. if he said it meant nothing hes blown it and made his point clear. you should be with someone who likes you and not someone who just uses you after the ex.
2006-12-10 23:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in way over your head. And I feel something bad will happen. Dump them and get out before they start thinking you are a s l u t
2006-12-10 23:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by party_pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C has obviously been there for you the most. Go out with him. Try it 4 a wile........ I think dat u'll be impressed wit ur results!
2006-12-10 23:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello? We're men. if yer hot we eventually wanna boink you...
2006-12-10 23:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋