My daughter had been potty trained for over a month. She was doing amazing. Dry everynight with no accidents. Now she has started peeing everywhere and i dont know why as she was trained!!! It took me so long and its is as though i havent trained her at all.
She has just sat on my bed and peed and soaked my mattress right through. I feel like screaming.
Is this normal as i said she had been fully trained for over a month
2006-12-10 22:35:28 · 21 answers · asked by x !! Me !! x 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
gun_woop... how ignorant of you. I will report you for being so rude!
2006-12-10 22:39:34 · update #1
It has been yesterday and today. I have just turned 21 the other day and everyone was making a deal about me instead of her. maybe something to do with this?
2006-12-10 22:43:04 · update #2
It's normal for something like this to happen. She also might feel jealous as you said that you turned 21 the other day and people were making a big deal over you instead of her. Just try to help her along with it again. It will probably take a lot of hard work from the both of you. Try taking her to the potty ever 30 minutes to an hour if she isn't saying that she has to use the potty or anything and if she does tell you then just remind her and praise her for using the potty when she does. She might just want attention so if you can try giving her alot of attention and just remind her or take her to the potty if you have to an praise her. I hope this helps you a little bit. Good Luck. P.S. Happy 21st.
2006-12-11 08:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible she might have a urine infection. There will be setbacks though. I'm training my son and some days he does great, other times he has little accidents. The important thing is to be consistent. Perhaps you could do a star chart. Give her a star every time she does well and if she gets enough stars at the end of the day, she gets a special treat for being such a good girl. Doesn't have to be expensive gifts. One treat could be the two of you baking fairy cakes together or having a special girls night with movies, ice cream, painting her toenails (maybe not her fingernails at that age) BRIBES ALWAYS WORK lol
2006-12-10 23:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Velvet_Goth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is to make sure she doesn't have urinary tract infection, which is quite common in girls.
It partly depends on how old your daughter is, but if there is a lot of changes taking place or things going on right now, she could be regressing becasue of that. Just work through it, maybe take a few steps back to an earlier stage of potty training and work from there. She'll be back to being potty trained before you know it.
2006-12-11 02:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by jc2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i do think it is something to do with wanting attention!
my little boy is 2. he has been potty trained since august. he was doing great until i bought a puppy a few weeks ago, because the puppy wasnt house trained and weed a lot on the floor my son thought he would start to!!
to get over this i just made sure i gave him as much attention as possible and got him to help me house train the dog.
because he was gettin attention from me and he was feelin all grown up for teaching the puppy to be a big boy like him he soon stopped!
it took about a week!! good luck xx
2006-12-11 09:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by ILBW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old, A month is not a very long time, and they will make mistakes especially during the night, make sure you limit her liquid intake until she learns how to control her bladder, which I might add is about the size of a small tangerine. Don't scold her just gentle reminders will work better. Use pull ups until she hasn't had any accidents for awhile, they are just like underpants but will absorb. Being a new mother can be very frustrating, everything is all new to you. Now imagine what it's like for her. Now that your a mother everything should be about your child, having a big celebration for your 21st just seems a little immature.
2006-12-10 23:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by MKM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal for her to have accidents, but if she is deliberatly doing it something else might be bothering her. Has something happened recently? Are you stressed essentially stressing her? My doctor told us that potty training with girls is easier than boys they train faster but have many more accidents. How long has she been having these accidents? If I were you, I would call the dr and see if maybe she has an infection or something...you never know what it could be. Good luck!
2006-12-10 22:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy to One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say how old your little one is? my daughter is now 3 and dry, but when i tried potty training she was 14 months the first 2 attempts ended in disaster but on the 3rd attempt i found she didn't like the potty she went straight to the toilet with a step and a special seat. i think it made her feel more grown up?? just a suggestion but ditch the potty try the toilet. hope it works out for you.
2006-12-12 00:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by gimma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You train dogs, not children.
I assume if she is old enough to potty on her own, she is old enough to speak so you need to talk to her. You need to ask her why, make sure she isn't sick or in pain or scared. Then you need to tell her she can't make a mess everywhere and you either need to take her to the potty every 30 minutes until she starts going on her own again, or you need to put her back in pull ups.
Punishing her is only going to make it worse. She will go potty on her own when she decides she doesn't want to wear diapers anymore.
2006-12-11 01:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking her why she is doing this? It seems to me like she's doing this for some sort of attention she wants and is not getting. She knows that what she did was going to get your attention some how. Try to find out what's bothering. Don't scream at her because, you know, that will make her close up and not talk. Tell her that you love her and that you are here to help her. Sometimes a child just doesn't know how to ask you questions so they do things that they know will get your full attention. Good luck.
2006-12-10 22:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by greylady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds as though she might have had a bad experience on the potty. you need to tell her off when she does it and reward her EVERY time she uses the potty.
keep a chart next to the potty and everytime she does a wee put a gold star on the chart, a poo 2 stars, when she reaches 10 give her a prize! a sweet or a trip to the park or some money.
you need to keep this up though, it won't be forever, cos she will move onto the toilet eventually.
2006-12-10 22:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Helen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋