I feel like a loser. I’m so lonely in this class. Everyday I come to class not knowing what I want to do later. I hate tertiary education; everyone I like has left this ******* class, the majority of people that is left here are so self-centered & deceitful. I miss my secondary school friends they were so much caring & more willing to talk to me than the ones in here. I don’t trust a single one of my classmates. They enjoy gossiping about each other. It’s not just me they talk bad things about but with everyone. I can accept that some of them genuinely nice. Hence, when I mean some I mean 2 or 3 tops. I don’t have a single best friend at all in this class. All I want to do is finish my project (especially since I had really crappy marks for O'Levels) & get the hell out of here but some of them enjoy picking on me. I feel like I can’t do anything here. I feel like ending my life, everything time I see a speeding car sped off in front of me. I want to die.
2006-12-10 22:22:54 · 9 answers · asked by a 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Life gets better after school. Go to http://www.befrienders.org/ they have information on getting help for nearly any country in the world. They won't judge you.
2006-12-10 22:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Gwen K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try putting these nasty talkers in there place you might feel like you wished that you had not when you're finished but you will also feel rewarded and like you accompished something for sticking up for yourself and the other classmates they are being disrespectful to.
You need to look at things differently like these people are pushing you and you can't let them by letting them irritate you, you are giving them your energy and well frankly you need all your energy so no longer give it to them or any other unworthy soul!
Who the heck needs friends anyway? I guess friends are nice in a way but also in a way they can do more damage then good! We come into this world alone and that is how most of us leave this world. Just be you and happy to be the individual that you are forget about wanting friends, they hold you back they would rather you be a follower rather then a leader, they back stab you and cheat on your gf or bf when they get the chance...He who walks alone goes farhter in life, stand your ground be strong and don't let them knock you over, only you can push their negitivity back onto themsleves. Hold your head high focus on passsing the class remeber the class is only temporary and do not get distartcted by their ignorance.... Rise above it... and plase if you are suicidial please talk to a counslor or a therapist.
Good luck, there are happy days ahead!
2006-12-11 08:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know i don't think that you should take your life. Kids have always been mean, i went through that most of my life in school. They can really hurt people, and make them withdrawn, and want to go somewhere else just to get away from them. I know i have done that too. It is hard but just try to get through this year, and if that don't work have your parents go in and get you tranfered to a new school. you might find that in a different school, that they well be nicer to you. I wish you all the luck in the world with this, cause i think that things like this should not happen but they do. So kids just think they are so hot stuff, that they don't think that they are doing anything wrong haveing everyone pick on you. So try to even change to another class. I would talk to my parents, i ended up going to another school, where the kids from the old school called the pop.kids, and asked them to keep beinging mean to me. The girl they called said why, i don't even know her, i have nothing against her. So when i tranfered, it was cool, cause they did not hurt or tease me anymore. And they were really nice to me.
2006-12-11 07:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that you are having such a bad time. It must feel dreadful. But I'm wondering just what there is that is good in your life that you could hang on to right now. Is there just a little thing that you could chnage that might bring you some joy and get your life moving in a positive way again. I know that suicude can seem quite attractive when you're feeling bad, but it isn't really. However when you've kind of crossed the threshold to even consider it, sometimes it can be comforting jyust to know that no one can take that awya from you and you can often carry on a bit longer till bit by bit things DO get better. So, I'm sending you a warm hug and lots of love to try to brighten your day
2006-12-11 06:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by hummingbird 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for a few years: you will soon find that your lot is much better than many many others', and, that you can actually be of help and solace to many others! After you help out a few people, after you make friends with a few people, think deeply and sincerely, as your own best friend, which is you, yourself, what is good for you! You'll begin to get some answers that amaze you pleasantly: you will change totally, I assure you! All the best!
2006-12-11 06:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you don't wanna die. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Very difficult, impossible to reverse. It is the ultimate selfish act. You would be surprised at how many people will miss you---plus you can't come back to appreciate them. School always sux--people that you think enjoy pickin' on you are low-lifes. They think that puttin' you down raises their stature. They are looking for reaction from you. Try to shine it on. They'll knock it off if they can't get a rise outa you. Don't kill yourself---among other things, it will lower you to those idiots' level. THIS, WILL PASS. "Hold On" by Good Charlotte saved my life. Try to listen to that song---over and over and over.
2006-12-11 06:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not worth killing yourself over, PLEASE have a good night of sleep, and THINK about things! There is a hell of a lot of good things in life to LIVE for, trust me, I'm almost 44 and am definitely not "Mr. Successful" nor do I have a buttload of friends, but you know what? The TRUE friends I have make it ALL worth-wild!
People can be real azzholes, but guess what? THEY have problems to, THEY have failures in their lives, AND ghosts in the closet, you MUST remember they are NOT any better than you, so be happy and LOVE life, and work on meeting GOOD people!
If you want to talk, e-mail me! I'll DEFINITELY talk to you!!! :)
2006-12-11 06:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with what other people say or do, in GODs eyes you are a jewel, ant to come to think of it He is our Father and a king so that makes us all Princes and Princesses.
So get that thoughts out of your head and start living... It is worth it , believe me....
2006-12-11 06:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Kakhuisdraaksemaat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is no bowl of roses but don't give up talk to your Doctor about these sucidial ideas.
2006-12-11 06:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by lonetraveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋