I dont get why im seen as the bad guy for being the way i am! Yeah ive got a girlfriend and i also like to get off with other girls! If i left her and got a place on my own then i would still see her for sex and have my fun with other girls! She would always want me she has told me this many times! So what everyone is saying is that im a t#at for living with her? I couldnt afford to live on my own and neither could she! She doesnt know that i cheat on her, we have alot of good times together. I make her happy most of the time, i wont change! I know for a fact nobody else would put up with me! If im not hurting her why cant i carry on what im doing? I dont want to be single! I enjoy being wanted by her! Im not a t#at!
2006-12-10 22:03:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not only are you greedy - I hope you've got the address of your nearest clap clinic !
2006-12-10 22:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is wrong. Nobody deserves to be used like a scum like you maybe if you were not out with other women you could afford a place on your own. She shouldn't have to pay for you cowardness. If you had a sister how would like someone to do that to her. Even worse what if you had a daughter and she was being treated the way you treat your girl would you like it. Be a man if you can call yourself that and be honest and support your own bad habbits.
2006-12-10 22:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a tw*t because you are using her - she is not 100% aware of what you are doing so you can't argue that she is happy with the situation.
you yourself have called it 'cheating' so you know what you are doing is wrong.
you obviously do feel bad to a certain extent otherwise you wouldn't have posted the question on here.
the only reason your girlfriend has told you she won't leave you is because she loves you, and believes that you are the right person for her. also she probably doesn't have the guts to dump you. if she knew what you were really like she would know what a bad boyfriend and friend you are to her.
i hope that you never have to be treated by someone you love, the way that you are treating your girlfriend . . .
2006-12-10 22:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to want both worlds. What IS wrong is you're not allowing your GF to make a decision to stay with a puss like you. Now, if you told her, dear, I will continue to f other girls but want to live here with you too and she said OK, that's different. The girl has no brains, but at least she made a decision based on fact, not lies.
I think you are a loser but hey, I'm not dating you and chances are I wouldn't look at you twice. But then gain, I'm not a silly almost 20 something chick either. Nor am I so desperate for a man I'll sleep with just because or live with him because I'm poor.
Now that I think of it...your women are the losers... you're just the puss taking advantage of them... hmmm... How's that for trix eh?
2006-12-10 22:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by cnith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one day you might find someone that you love so much you would never dream of sleeping with any1 else but they might be like you are now how would you like that!
How would you like it if you knew your dad was cheating on your mum
Look at it in different situations and see how it would affect you!
If you GF found out it would hurt her though wouldn't it and one day she will find out if you love her you should respect her and just end it and be single it isn't fair on her
If you can work through it to be able to stay living with her but just don't be her BF it isn't fair to be treated like that and believe me you wont like it if and when it happens to you
2006-12-10 22:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have best of all worlds except that it shouldnt be thru cheating, if you tell her the truth and shes ok with it then by all means go ahead and have fun but no cheating.
2006-12-10 22:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes down to the whole cheating thing really and the going behind her back stuff.
If you can live with it then good luck to you.
2006-12-10 22:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you think it ok if she was sleeping with other men, other than you?
You want an open relationship, nothing wrong with that but you need to find a partner who wants that also.
2006-12-10 22:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by benn26k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a typical bloke and i find ur behaviour disgraceful. i hope your gf catches you out one day and knocks you out. what you are doing is not right. im a girl and my man has done this to me in the past but he regretted it and has never done it since suffering the consequences. i advise you shape up! ps. you are a T#at!!
2006-12-10 22:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like u got it worked but the truth always comes out
2006-12-10 22:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋