2006-12-10 21:57:47 · 30 answers · asked by Kakhuisdraaksemaat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what? I think that is normal. I think it is because when you have someone, you carry yourself with more self-confidence and don't seem desperate. Women are really in tune with non-verbal things.
Also, SOME women see you as a bit of a challenge if they KNOW you are married and just want to see if they can get you to flirt back with them.
So, are you saying that you enjoy this as just some eye candy and and ego boost or are you planning to do something with your new found fans? If so, be prepared for problems. The reality is not always as exciting as the fantasy.
2006-12-10 21:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married your wife for a reason, because you love her, right? If that much is true, then don't worry about it, other women are off limits now---unless you are asking for marital problems. Just enjoy the fact that you now have someone you love, and spend as much time as possible in trying to make each other happy. A good relationship doesn't happen all by itself, it takes alot of hard work to keep it that way and to maintain it. There must be a reason she agreed to marry you in the first place, right? Obviously, she loves you, too, or she wouldn't have---don't ruin a good thing, and don't take her for granted. Show her everyday how much you love her. All the other girls are just eye candy now---you can look, nothing wrong with that as long as you don't touch, lol.
2006-12-10 22:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cherokee Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two main reasons that I can articulate.
1) Being married, you are showing you are willing to commit to a relationship. That wedding ring shows that you are an acceptable mate, and that another woman vouched for that by marrying you...
2) The "lust light" has probably gone out of you're eyes. You are looking at (other) women like they are human beings and not just another warm place to put "Mr Happy"...
It is a cruel irony, and humans are very good at wanting the unobtainable...
2006-12-10 22:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ALMOST every female looks for a male with the balls to have it in them to commit a comentment is what they are after now if they have never have had that in their lives i guess they think that if a guy can have the confidents to comment to just one woman and have the confidents to comment all his energy sexual wise she will never leave him if he treats her like she's priceless and does not have a problem to satsfi the same woman in bed for the rest of his life then they think that you can ***** them like they are nonthing meaning that you could keep them cumming like nonthing and no one but your wife could make you come. i guess why wemon wont quit giving you the (EYES) is become now amarried man has all the time in the world to learn JUST how to please the opposite sex (MASTERS OF THE PLEASURING ARTS) if you will. they wanna come first not the other way around and they think that a married man can do just that. ...lust haah makes a female and a male do some crazy things i always thought if a man cant hold his oath to be true to his one and only then his word is not good for jacksh!t.
2006-12-10 22:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by soki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have this confident I'm not really interested in you attitude now that you're married, which makes you a challenge to be pursued. Plus you're wedding ring is a turn on for many women.
Personally, I don't get it, but that's what I've seen and heard.
2006-12-10 22:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by Triquetra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife now picks out your clothes and hairdresser... Your wife is making you so happy that it shows and you actually look better. Your wife takes better care of you than you used to take of yourself. It's probably more of a reflection on how hot your wife looks, anyway - the women are thinking "wow, he is good enough to marry a woman like THAT!" Basically, tell your wife that she's doing a good job.
2006-12-10 22:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by kathryn3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one is very simple. Women now see you as a challenge. Whilst you were single you were easy prey but now that they see another woman has you they look at you in a completely new light. If they can drag you away from what you now love and cherrish then this is mission accomplished for them.
2006-12-10 22:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by asilad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be one of three things. I have heard that when women see you with another woman they see that you might have your crap together and worth something. I have also heard that when you are with someone and you have regular relations with that person the scent gets on you and other females can smell it or sense it. I am not sure how true that is but I have heard it, or lastley you could just be rich.
2006-12-10 22:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by NEED HELP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody always wants what someone else has. Besides, now you're married you don't have to try and that makes you much more attractive.
2006-12-10 22:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're not available. Sounds weird but it's the truth. When you're dating it's hard to find someone but not that you're not looking they come to you. Sometimes it's like buying something. You want something really bad....when you fianlly get either it goes on sale or someone give it to you.
Hope you're not confuse by my answer.
2006-12-10 22:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by shabana0903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋