how do i tell her?
its complicating,because we both are females!
im obssesed with her..
i cant imagine her with a man..which i know would happen one day in thefuture..she would be married to any guy..
and i would be away...would never have a chance to tell her what i really feel..and why i really care for her..throughout all this years.
this confession would freak her off.
she might not speak to me ever again..
i get jealous,as many guys admire her good looks...and they give her lots of attention...
while i always wish i was born as a guy not girl,because naturally,since i was a kid..i was boyish and still i am...but i have to be like a girl for the society..but deep inside,i always have the feel like a man...and wish to be one.....
eventually i would lose her one day...i fear that day...thinking about it,kils me each day...
i dread myself..
i cant handle my longings...my self conflict...
just wish i can end my life...commiting sucide is my last resort...
2006-12-10 21:54:40 · 5 answers · asked by FaTaLe Attraction 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax! There are millions out there like you! You are getting filled with anxiety and self-pity. Come out of your closet.Hell with society, they won't make you happy!
Now if you tell her how you feel,excpect so many things to happen,one of which is you might lose her forever. You're gambling with a good friendship. But if don't take courage then forever loose your peace..
The best thing for you to do right now is to feel your way through. Start asking hypothetical questions like girl/girl relationship. Then if she's open then you too can be open about it. Most of the girls nowadays are still looking for men but give yourself a fighting chance. Who knows she might be into it or she has done it beofre.
Now if you are a man,Be brave,tell her!
2006-12-10 22:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is straight then you should not tell her ! It could ruin your friendship. What I find best is going to her and saying hey I have this other friend who is in love with her friend what would you do if that was you ?
2006-12-10 21:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by mindy s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess just go for it you only ever live once and if you dont take that chance then you dotn no what would have happend
2006-12-10 21:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel u have 2 tell her then dont waste time tell her
2006-12-10 21:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your society accept same sex relationship then you shd tell her.
2006-12-10 21:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by pristine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋