i like her shes nice lookin but when i let her move in with me all she does is sit around and sleep and dirty ny house up should i just look for a new gf?
2006-12-10 21:33:30 · 23 answers · asked by alex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, quickly. She is a slacker
2006-12-10 21:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by ashleighshea1982 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have no real feelings for her, let her go...and tell her why you are doing it. This will help her grow a little, and hopefully learn from her mistakes.
If you care about her and want to keep her around, you still need to tell her. Communication is vital in a relationship. Does she have a job? If not, tell her to get one. If she doesn't listen to you, she probably don't have any respect for you and probably don't care about you enough to try. If she listens to you, you know you have a keeper because that means she respects you and is concerned about how you feel. Don't be afraid to communicate, and do is nicely.
If she has a job, there may be more issues. She may have baggage, may be suffering from depression. It is up to you whether you want to take that on or not. Should you decide to you have to be actively involved. Make her get up and go do things. Give her a list of chores. Lay it all on the line, shape up or ship out.
Good luck with this. I hope things work out for you.
2006-12-11 05:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...no. First off,just so you know, cohabitation in a relationship is how a lot of them fail and some of them end wih marriage and continue with divorce. but mosto f the time you marry out of guilt. but the point is that there are boundries that are crossed during cohabitation making it harder for your relationship. Second, maybe you should confront her. I mean what can it hurt. If it hurts her feelings maybe she will leave and you can find a new girlfriend or maybe she will understand and then you guys can continue to go out. But dont jump to just thinking about getting a new one like its being on a shopping spree.
2006-12-11 06:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and see if there's improvement.You need to get on with whoever you live with,so if she's making you uunhappy after that get rid.
Harsh but fair.
Chat soon,
Love ya Babez
XX
2006-12-11 06:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shows you the mistake of choosing a mate based on looks alone. Talk to her first, maybe she doesn't know how much her behavior displeases you?
2006-12-11 05:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! If she's your girlfriend and she does that, do you really think she would make a good wife? Find someone who will do her share. Have a nice day!
2006-12-11 05:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youll never get to know someone better unless they move in and lived with you.....But next time boy, dont just go for the LOOKS.....it victimizes many...
2006-12-11 05:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by bea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if she doesn't know how to clean up after herself, she's still a child. Let her go and find a REAL girlfriend.
2006-12-11 05:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring a new gal back home leave behind 'clues' of the new gal's presence for your gf to find out. i bet she moves out on her own and it will save you the trouble of having to ask her to move out?
2006-12-11 05:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by pristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to clean up after herself, and if she doesn't throw her and the rubbish out
2006-12-11 05:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by <<+ AND +>> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her then decide only you can make that choice you may be able to work things out but thats upto you do you want to work things out GOOD LUCK
2006-12-11 05:49:39 · answer #11 · answered by laura j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋