Well, we are two very good friends and I adore him. He have a girlfriend and she went to study in other country. So, few weeks ago we have kissed and after that we never stoped. It was intresting but 3 days ago, he kissed me in front of all people that we know. Everybody were shocked and I don't know what are we doing. The point is he love his girlfriend and I am not in love in him, but but for my friends we look like we are in love so bad. So are we? :)
2006-12-10 21:25:49 · 17 answers · asked by Iman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lots of people don't know when they are inlove or not.Why are you kissing him in the first place?Do you like him and think about him all the time?If you do then there's feelings.Now,if you were his girlfriend overseas,would you want someone else kissing your boyfriend?Have a talk with him and find out whats cutting with his emotions over the other girlfriend?Why he kissed you in public and his feelings towards you?Only the two of you can sort the love problem out and remember he has to be all for you and not just use you till his girl comes back.How would you feel then if your emotions grew more?Goodluck...
2006-12-10 21:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who knows the answer to this question. Look deep. Are you in love with him? Maybe you are infatuated with him. The attention feels good. But be very careful....he has a girlfriend right now. Maybe the next time he tries to kiss you..you need to back away and not let him until you know how you feel and what you are going to do about the situation. You sound a little confused and this all sounds a little exciting to you...but complicated...take a couple of days to yourself to think about this...let your friend know that this is concerning you somewhat. I would hate to see you lose a good friend because of this.....intimacy between friends gets tricky. Good luck to you!! All things will work out in the long run.
2006-12-10 21:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by sherri p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it the starting of love. and maybe he is just replacing the other girl for the timebeing till she comes from the other country. how come he loved u when he already loves another girl? even if she is not in the country, he has to respect that.. i think u shouldnt continue with him coz he is a cheater. he cheated the other girl, and he could cheat u one day. so take care
2006-12-10 21:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by submerged_emotions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask urself dear.
there must b an answer in the deep inside of ur heart.
as 4 me if he has kissed u then probably he doesn't love his girlfren anymore.
it is hard to understand boys.
2006-12-10 21:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by cutey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really not love him at all? and he? does he loves you and forgot about his girlfriend or does he still loves her? if he is and you don't love him, then this is called flirting.
i seriously hope you'll sort this out and stop doing this if you both don't love each other... because all 3 people will get hurt. especially his girlfriend.hope what i say helps.
2006-12-10 21:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by smallorganic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he is not using you he might be lonely missing her girlfriend so you nearest why not How would we know how you two are feeling in fact you said yourself if a may quote your words in the sentence I AM NOT IN LOVE IN HIM what more can we say
2006-12-10 21:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the only one thats going to really KNOW if you are in love, you could just have feeling for him that have been growing over time and it could all be coming out in the open at once.
2006-12-10 21:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by cade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u feel guilty cause u know its wrong-his girl is obviously a friend of urs...and u shdnt have started in the first place
2006-12-10 21:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the boys , settle down and study .... especially spelling !!!
2006-12-10 21:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by hasenbeneasy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pple make mistakes but the earlier you correct them the better. run so that the ugly will not happen
2006-12-10 21:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by ronkeslim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋