Can any women give me some advice? I'm too embarassed to ask any of the women i know?

Question

I'm considering getting circumcised but its akward for me to ask anyone i've been with about it. Can u feel the difference? What would you tell a boyfriend if he was considering getting it done? Does it even make any difference for the woman?

Answer 1

No it doesn't feel any different.

If my bf was going to get it done (whch he can't because he's already circumcised) I would say "Don't do it". It's unnecessary surgery. I would worry about something going wrong.

The only difference is that uncircumcised men do seem to enjoy sex and oral sex a little bit more, and when you go down on them, they have a "flavour" of their own which is not unpleasant - a little like very ripe peaches.

Answer 2

Well... you can feel a difference, but only very slightly. I'd say it should be a matter of personal choice, like a piercing or tattoo, so a boyfriend would be free to do as he chose there. However, there are good things about the natural way & good things about circumcision. Is there a reason you want to have this done? To fit in? Or religious reasons?

Answer 3

i guess all you can do is whats best for you. If you feel that you want and or need to be circumsised then go for it , but you need to think about your life in the long run if you get it done.
because it is up to you not anyone else when it comes to something like that, so take a few deep breath way up the pros and cons and go from there and im sure you will make the decision and be happy with what ever you decided. Just be wise first.

Answer 4

Circumcision is normally done at birth and is quite painful in adulthood.To me a circumcised penis leaves a cleaner taste and smell and is good on the eye...
Preventative reasons:
Penile cancer
sexually transmited diseases
urinary tract infections
Although there can be complications:
reduction in penile sensation
bleeding
damage to urine tube(urethra)
amputation of the glands(rare)
infection in the blood

Answer 5

I think most doctors are hesitant about giving a grown man a circumcision seeing as it is more painful when you get older. You might want to stick with what you got.

Answer 6

it will be painful if you get it done as an adult. most people have it done as a child or do not get it at all. if i were you i wouldn't do it..i knew a guy who did it at grown age and he was in horrible pain for over a week. some girls like it circumcised but if a girl loves you she will not care..its not like its really that big of a deal to anyone....

Answer 7

CIRCUMCISED IS DEFINETELY BETTER.

CIRCUMCISION IS PAINLESS, EASY AND VIRTUALLY NO-RISK

Most women prefer a man with a circumcised penis because it may move inside them in a less friction-based manner. Once he is inside the vagina, the unhooded penis may easily slide up and down to create pleasure for both partners.

There are several advantages for circumcised men when it comes to sexuality. First is that circumcised male have no need to worry about daily cleansing of his foreskin. Meanwhile, men with an intact foreskin must take special care to move it up and down and clean it inside its covered areas to avoid odors or serious infection because of material buildup. Consequently, there might be some bacteria and germs that could surface thus affect their sexual health.

Safe sex is an added concern for uncircumcised men and their partners. Men with foreskins occasionally have difficulty finding the right condom or keeping one on during penetrative sexual activity. That spells trouble in bed as well as generates unneeded anxiety.

As for the sensitivity of the penis, no medical or physiological study has proved that circumcision reduces sensitivity, opposed to common belief. It is completely FALSE that circumcision reduces penis sensitivity. The American Academy of Paediatrics (AAP) confirms this on their web site; have a look at: http://www.aap.org/pubed/zzzjzmemh4c.htm

Several studies carried out by prestigious research bodies have concluded that uncircumcised penises are more prone to infections and contraction of STD's, including AIDS-HIV. Circumcised men have been proved to be up to seven times less likely to be infected than those who are uncircumcised. Have a look at this site: http://icuxbridge.icnetwork.co.uk/news/tm_objectid=14095142&method=full&siteid=53340&headline=-circumcision-protects-against-aids--name_page.html

As for women, studies also show that circumcision also protects female partners from AIDS-HIV and other STD's. Browse this article: http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/Press_releases/2006/02_08_06.html

Circumcision is an easy and nowadays painless procedure, which has many benefits, and virtually no risks.

Circumcision is NOT an amputation. Circumcision is NOT comparable at all to female circumcision, which is something completely different.

Circumcision rates are INCREASING nowadays, both in the United States and overseas. Many African and South American countries with little circumcision tradition are starting to promote the procedure to help to reduce the AIDS-HIV infection rates.

Answer 8

My husband is not circumcised and it really bothered him at first, but I don't know why. I can't tell a difference.

Answer 9

half the world's population are circumcised.
Rest assured, if you get it done by a good surgeon and not by any clergy, ( no religious sentiments here, I just mean hygiene, cleanliness and surgical skills), there won't be any problems.

Answer 10

as for me, i prefer my man to be circumcised. though it makes no difference when in bed but the sight is better when you are circumcised