okay ladies....i just want opinions. Does a man's "size" matter?
Is there any room for compromise? What is considered "standard size", large, too big...so on.
Also, is there any way for men to make up for being "small?"
And lastly, a man who is large, is there anything he needs to be cautious about during lovemaking?
all input is appreciated. thanks
2006-12-10
19:45:42
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
lol...to lizzo....listen bro, i have no feeling of inferiority...and i can certainly take down some panzi guy going by the name of lizzo.
my question is a nuetral one asking for the opinion of ladies. can you not understand the part of the text that reads "girls".....the question was intended for girls...not girly boys like you
2006-12-10
19:51:08 ·
update #1
Size most definitely matters, but only if the male member in question is either extremely large or extremely small. Exactly what is too large or too small will be determined by the woman in question, her comfort level, and the size of her vagina. That being said, there is a very wide range of length and girth in the middle that is acceptable and potentially pleasurable. For the majority of men who fit in this happy medium, size does not matter, per se, and it is all about the skill, or the emotional attachment, or both.
For a man who is "too small" for the woman he is with, the best way to make up for that is to exceed in other areas. If you'd like those areas to be sexual, work on the tongue and dexterity. However, if the guy is funny enough, smart enough, and sweet enough, and if the girl cares more about those things than sex, he won't have much to worry about.
As for the men who are too large, DO NOT POUND ON THE CERVIX. It freakin' hurts. I know it feels best for men when they can get deeper inside, so here is a tip: go around the cervix. You'll find plenty of room above, below, or to either side of it. Other than that, the best advice is to start slow. Before you go crazy and fast, make sure your lady is relaxed and capable of receiving your penis.
For anyone who is afraid they fall into the "too big" or "too small" catagories, don't worry. Romantically speaking, a smart woman knows that when she takes the man, she takes the whole thing--the penis included.
2006-12-10 20:12:36
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answered by ms dont panic 4
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I am older ( 27) and I say no it doesn't matter.
To big hurts and really is not enjoyable at all. But there is no way to determine what is to big or to small because all women's vagina's are different. The formation of rugal folds in the vagina allows for elasticity. The typical length of a vagina is somewhere between 3 and 4 inches deep. There is room for a penis larger than that and that should calm all fear of being to small.
The average size of a penis is around 6.2 inches long erect. There have been many researches on this famous question and it will never be answered with a sureness that makes everyone happy.
Main thing is be happy with what you have and you will learn how to make up for any short coming that you have or compensate for being to large.
If a man is large compared to the woman then the woman should be wet either naturally or with a lubricant. It can also be painful for the man if there isn't enough give and to much pressure is applied to the penis.
2006-12-10 20:02:09
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answered by Feather 3
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I've seen it all, and compassion and genuine interest in the girl can make up for a lot. A guy with a smaller one can focus more on foreplay and massage. Average guys need to focus on being unique or exciting. Large guys need to give us ladies a lengthier performance. And there are the rare guys who are forced to get a penis reduction(it is real) because nobody will ever do it with them because its too big or won't get hard because of blood flow.Also some make up for length with girth, and a woman's vagina only has nerve endings in the first one third and the elusive G-spot has never been scientifically found to exist.
smaller is under 4 inches hard
average is 5-7 inches hard
large is 7-9 inches hard
9+ guys aren't getting any from most of us ladies!
ALWAYS USE CONDOMS OR DO NOT HAVE SEX!
I have been happily married for 5 years in February and our sex life is great, we keep it honest, and fantasize together if we feel like it.
monogamy is the best policy.
2006-12-10 20:32:43
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answered by kimberly 3
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Wow, no one wants to go to vegas but they perk up when you talk about the size of your.... uh feet. I don't know what is standard or too large. No offense to the Irish but I've only been w/ Irishmen and they were small. Doesn't matter. Technique is what counts most. We care more about emotional connection than physical apsects anyway. Why don't you ask how to connect?
2006-12-12 18:56:17
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answered by uknowme 6
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yes it does if it sex is the main reason of the relationship if it is small its not fun for us and if ur too big then it is painful u have to be carefull 6 to 7inch is the ideal size its not too big but isnt small but yes everything is fine if u love the person then size does not matter
2006-12-10 22:18:11
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answered by Anonymous
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A good snooker player never blames his cue.For me the size doesn't matter it's the way you do things that counts.For a big size: lubrication and go slow...
2006-12-10 19:50:49
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answered by Anonymous
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No need to be huge! You just have to know how to work it!! The position will make a big difference....doggy style is awesome if your small to med. - but not if your huge! If we're talking about huge, make sure she is wet!!! (or use lubes) otherwise its painful!!!
If we're talking about small....you better have some tongue talent!! If you do, then it's all good!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-10 19:56:55
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answered by DREAMY 2
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We dont want it too small, but as long as you know what to do with it! That is what really matters! As far as a man that is "Too Big" never had one!
2006-12-10 19:53:39
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answered by justjellybeans 1
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size doesnt matter. women think that the bigger it is, the better it will be but thats not always true. sometimes me who are small put more effort into it and make it better. also i would be scared to take in anthing so big.
2006-12-10 19:49:50
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answered by Anonymous
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No,but the technique does.In fact,in some places small size are consider best because its most satisfying.People are stereotype,they always think penis and breast,the bigger the better.Kinda shallow
2006-12-10 20:02:27
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answered by Janet Y 3
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